okay so there is this guy that i have liked for a long time. i am pretty sure that he likes me too but i need help to see if anyone else thinks so too. we were at a basketball game yesterday because we are both in band and he surprised me by coming. the whole time we talked and when he went to go say somthing to our friend and i would look at the game for a minute, he would check up on me and ask if i was okay. then he would stare at me and smile and act really goofy. it was really funny. and laugh at everything i said but not when we were being serious. but i don't know [i have a really good feeling that he does] what do you think
2006-12-02 15:21:35 · 21 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
also he kept saying things like when the cheerleaders came out he said that they were really good but none of them were really worth looking at. and he has a character that is kinda based on him and he said that the character has a girlfriend that he based on me. oh yeah, i forgot to put that i have known him for 3 or 4 years and i am one of his best friends. so yeah
2006-12-02 15:22:44 · update #1
"he surprised me by coming" "the whole time we talked" "he laughed at everything you said" "stare at you and smile and act real goofy" That all says YES he likes you. But from experience, he may get too nervous. HE maybe wondering the same thing about you. Put it out there, what do you have to loose. I don't think anything, but you'll never know unless you do. Tell him, when you feel it's kind of private and the moment is right, you like being around him, he makes you laugh. then look him in the eye....you'll know.
2006-12-02 15:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I take it that you are pretty young and that is why you are asking. Yeah, the guy likes you. The thing you need to know is if he is sincere. If he really, really, likes you, he will let you know that in time. If he doesn't, then he is just playing a game. Give it time, don't push him away, and don't be pushy in trying to get him to come out and say anything. Do you just want to know if he likes you or do you want a relationship with him? If you just want to know, ask. But, that is kind of silly and puts you in a weak spot and him on the spot. If he is "in to you" for a relationship, he will step up to the place soon--as long as he knows you are open for it. To let him know this, just be yourself.
2006-12-02 23:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by graff_monster@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have help with guy? You mean help with you! after 3/4 years I would think that you would have made up your mind by now. From what you say he seems interested more than you. Also you critisize him by saying he is goofy, doesn't sound like a true friendship to me. Ask yourself what you want not if does he or doesn't he.....
2006-12-02 23:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell ya he likes u.If he says he based a character on you thats his girlfriend then the sighns tottaly point to yes.You shoould go for him.Love forever for u two.
2006-12-02 23:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly. He'll probably do this again at the next opportunity and maybe ask you out. If you like him just be natural and let the relationship happen.
2006-12-02 23:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible but since you have known him so long you shouldnt be so shy as to not say. hey i like you and want to know if theres a chance for us. i mean if he respects you and cares he'd be honest with you. just ask other wise trust me it'll eat at you forever until you talk to him.
2006-12-02 23:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by cheeryeyeore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, this young man is very smitten with you and is just a little shy and afraid to tell you how he really feels.
2006-12-02 23:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a really nice guy and I think that he likes you I meen loves you. And maybe you two should hang out.
2006-12-02 23:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Dude Man 29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, we corny when we like someone. we try to see what will make you react and often overlook the simple things. i'm sure he likes ya.
2006-12-02 23:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by phoozball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he does but getting a boy to like you is easy getting one to respect you is another story good luck
2006-12-02 23:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋