i am getting married in 25 days. it is an arranged marriage & i know her since nearly 4 months. i have an on & off alcohol problem. y´day on the phone (i am in uk, she is in india) i abused her verbally. i cannot remember what exactly i told her b´coz i was heavily drunk. but she is still agreeing to marry her, however she never told me that she loves me, but that she likes me & cares about me. she says she is marrying me b´coz to keep her parents happy. is she sticking with me b´coz she like me that much (despite me abusing her on the phone y´day) or b´coz she loves her parents so much & wants to keep em happy.? by the way, otherwise i am such a good person. ie i am a very nice person. it´s only when i am drunk that i am terrible.
2006-12-02 15:19:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How much money do you have? There must be a reason she is willing to marry a jerk.
2006-12-02 15:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you apologized to her and are feeling some guilt and remorse for what you might have said to her. Take it from a married person, you need to change your habits if you want to have a strong marriage. If the drinking means more to you than your relationships, please I beg of you, do yourself and that poor girl and her family a favor an [YOU] call off the wedding because she is too noble to back out.
Personally, your quesiton is very dumb ..."does she love me that much?" No you bloody idiot/badmash, she is a better person than you and the Indian culture is dignified and that is why she has not backed out. But beleive me, I am sure she is hurt and a bit worried about what she is getting into. Confront her about the situation and maybe even find a good Hindi apology song to play for her for your bad behavior.
Change your bad habits so that you are worthy to deserve such a wife. Otherwise, PLEASE call it off... for her and her family's sake.
2006-12-02 17:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anjali U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will grow to love u with time. You r blessed to find such a forgiving person
2006-12-05 06:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by honey007rmsas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she knows this about you and is willing to forgive the incident. If you are going to be an angry drunk, I hope you do not drink around her and try to stop yourself from calling her when you are drunk.
2006-12-02 15:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop drinking
2006-12-02 15:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋