Should i stop being such a wimp?
please read..i like a guy i want to tell him i like him(love him) i really dont know him should i just teel him?
and how? do i just tell my friend to tell him cuz im shy?
2006-12-02 15:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi Mimi--what makes you think you're a wimp? (I know you can't answer, but something to think about.) There are much more profound messages we can send by our actions, attitudes, than words. If you "really don't know him" I think telling him would be awfully inappropriate. & for goodness sake, sweetie, don't involve a third person! Just take baby steps--see how it goes. You didn't say anything about how you perceived he "might" feel about you, yet at this point it would be irelevant since he might be asking himself the same question. Just be YOU. Let what, if anything happens just happen. To tell him how you "feel" (from the information you've given) would be the antithesis of "wimp" & I don't believe you'd really want to do that. If you truly feel you must just charge in there, I can only say that "impatience" could end anything before it had the chance to begin. Give this a think, okay?
2006-12-02 15:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok having your friend do it is a really immiture way to go about this.....how can you love this guy if you dont even know him? it sounds like a crush because you cant love someone you dont even know...and since it's a crush just tell him. it isnt a big deal. if he doesnt feel the same way youll just have a new crush in a few days.
2006-12-02 23:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO No NO ...don't let your friend tell him and don't you tell him either. It's too much too soon.
Just start a conversation with him about something he's interested in...sports...tv...anything. Get to know him. From there you'll find if you he likes you .
2006-12-02 23:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont go up to someone and just pour out your emotions. get to know this guy first as friends. just small talk for now
2006-12-02 23:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no get his phone number, or e-mail ,or pass a note. see wat he thinks. it will work and he will like you cause u did it not a friend. but be4 u do give him hints that ur interested. like flirt or when u see him giggle with ur friends so it draws his attention
2006-12-02 23:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by crazykid9530 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lady stop being so shy and tell him already =)
2006-12-02 23:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just have ur friend do it
thats what i did and now we're (my bf) goin out
good luck!
2006-12-02 23:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by montifrg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋