Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

Ok here is the thing. I have been with my boyfriend for over three years. As a person he is a great guy. He is kind, loving, funny, sweet. As a boyfriend he is those things at times and not so much at others. Well thats not my thing. This year has been very hard for us for many different reasons. A few weeks ago we went through some things and sat down and discussed our relationship. He said he had very mixed feelings and that as a person I am awesome but he isnt sure about our relationship. This totally crushed me and for the couple of weeks I did everything I could to get us back to what we were. I really put more into this relationship then either of us have in over a year. But then this past week I realized that I am not sure thats what I want. I think we both got comfortable with eachother and I would love to keep him as a friend but as more then that I just dont know anymore. So this past week I have backed off again...continued I will add more details in a minute!!!

2006-12-02 14:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 14:56:40 · 14 answers · asked by lexi 1 in Singles & Dating

And why does my ex flirt with my best friend and stare up at me when I'm around? Is he trying to get back at me because after all he did break up with me? He makes me miserable when I'm around. When I try not to be near him, he seems to follow me to that exact spot. What does this mean?

2006-12-02 14:56:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to let him kno without breaking his heart...or telling him if possible

2006-12-02 14:55:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

now i want a boyfriend to make out with me and do ... it ... with me but i cant find one. all of the guys in my town are *******. so dont say im too young but what am i supposed to do?

2006-12-02 14:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a stranger (man) approaches you, talks to you for a minute and then asks for your phone number, would you give it to him.

2006-12-02 14:54:51 · 19 answers · asked by robert f 1 in Singles & Dating

I 'v thinking of changing my personality. People say i'm weird. Is this good? Would u rather date a talkative?

2006-12-02 14:53:58 · 12 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

so basically i dont have bf . and i have male friends who said that to me. they basically dont allow me to go out with their other friends. and the reason is this... i find it very sad..

is it trying to say i'm just to mature and boring no fun kind of person??

2006-12-02 14:53:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you are shaving in and around your bikini line do you like to be completely shaved, trimmed or natural. Why?

2006-12-02 14:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by skip22h 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-02 14:53:33 · 17 answers · asked by T391014 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please read..i like a guy i want to tell him i like him(love him) i really dont know him should i just teel him?
and how? do i just tell my friend to tell him cuz im shy?

IM SCARED OF REJECTION

2006-12-02 14:52:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do all girls think of being with another girl???
i think we all have at least once

2006-12-02 14:52:24 · 1 answers · asked by ceecee800 2 in Singles & Dating

I've met a man I'm falling in love with, but I'll have to wait for him because he's dating another girl, plus he's not as mature emotionally as I'd really like. Meanwhile there are three other guys who like me and have made it clear. They're not what I hoped for as far as looks, and one is 10 years older than me. Looks are important to me, because I don't want to NOT desire the guy I'm with and be tempted to cheat, or cool off on him. That's not fair to him. But I also don't want to be shallow and push love away. Should I let go of the guy I really love, and start an LTR with one of these other guys? (P.S., the one who likes me most is kind of overweight and bland looking. I feel I should be patient with him, but I don't love him. Or the other two.) What should I do? Is it right sometimes to settle?

2006-12-02 14:51:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should i do?
i really like this guy (he happens 2 be my bestfriend). he knows i like him but still he talks about his girlfriend infront of me so now i hate him. so i had some friends talk 2 him and they told him how much i hate him and he told his girlfriend who came up 2 he and said "what was that all about. iz it cuz im goin out with him and not him" and so now i cant keep him off my mind and whenever i think about him i end up seeing his girlfreind and i cry on the inside. Wat should i do

2006-12-02 14:50:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are all the names in the world to call a girl like sexy, honey, baby, ect. What are good names to call a guy?

2006-12-02 14:50:06 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

Sex in the backseat of your car in a semi-public place or on your desk at work?

2006-12-02 14:49:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going crazy,my mom and dad are having a divorce,my family is gossiping to eachother,i can't trust my mom because of the reason that she lies to me and played my dad,and to top it all off, my girlfriend on November 30th (this thursday) broke up with me while i'm visiting family in florida. She lift me for another guy. (u can help by looking for: I just broke up with my girlfriend last night, shes leaving me for another guy named joe.?) She could have slit my wrist and let me bleed to death and that would have felt better than this.I have a friend who is telling me not to do anything, i feel as though there is nothing left to live for, i want to dissapear, and maybe see what happens when i reapear 15 years from now, who would care? My girlfriend has her own story, i'd appreciate it if everyone who sees this looks for that other question that i asked. i just want my life to go better... thank you to everyone that answers this question, and again to those with my girlfriend one...

2006-12-02 14:48:50 · 8 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Singles & Dating

In a short skirt and no panties? She must have known that her Cesarean scar was going to be all over the Internet.

2006-12-02 14:48:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So.... I have this best friend. And yeah ok... I'll admit I kinda like him.. but I am pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way about me... or at least I was.

Yesterday we had a movie night at one of my friends houses.
and..... him and I were both chillin on the couch. He kept.... pulling me close to him and making me lean against him or resting his head on my shoulder. I was trying not to let myself jump to conclusions so I just kinda let it go. No big deal it went on for like another hour.
Well then, he layed down and he told me that I should lay next to him to warm him up.... I was suprised.... but I did. So I layed next to him. Towards the end of the movie I was pretty much laying with my head on his chest and his arm around me. I still was trying to not let it get to me but at the end, he gave me a kiss on the forehead. Then I was talking to my friends afterwards and they said that he stared at me through the whole movie and he didn't even look at the TV. What does this mean?

2006-12-02 14:48:10 · 6 answers · asked by fiyera 3 in Singles & Dating

did u ever like someone at work and u had a high expectation about the person and u just had to quit b/c u wouldn't take it any more.
please tell me a little bit about what made u quite ur previous job

2006-12-02 14:48:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She left me for another guy,i'm here in florida visiting my family,missing her to death,then,last night,i talked to her on the phone, she didn't sound right, kind of funny, i would give her the world, 1st time we were togeather, we were togeather for about 3 weeks,this time (#2)
was only 2 weeks,when i'm not around, she looks for someone to comfort her (so i figured out). and i know it cause that is the same reason why she left me the 1st time. I really love her, i cried all last night, and i feel as though i should walk off a cliff, i don't know anymore, my life hasn't been the easiest lately, and it is hard to get through school, family, and now this, she helped me by coming back to me, and i started to feel "normal" again,i just want to go home,what is wrong with me? do i have issues or something? is it her? what do i do to get her back to me FOREVER? I'm only in high school, but i have this feeling that i can spend the rest of my life with her. i appreciate all the help... thanks.

2006-12-02 14:47:22 · 4 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 14:46:28 · 6 answers · asked by Emily R 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy that is really nice and waits for me to come online and told me he could never be angry at me even after I cut him off my 360 page and IM he still re accepted me..I mean I was a lttle mean to him..I even told him I could never fall in love with him..but I did and I told him I couldn't be his friend anymore but he still talks to me

2006-12-02 14:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend and she really likes this guy, he is older but he seems to always be with someone and when ever she sees him with girls it breaks her heart but there no way she can go up to him and say hey I like you. She says "It's complicated" what do I do as her friend?

2006-12-02 14:46:07 · 2 answers · asked by americangurl92 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have 2 bestfriends that you have been hanging out with all year and they find another friend that they want to be there bestfriend then they don't hangout with you anymore then you start to hangout with another person then they get mad at you.

what would you do??

2006-12-02 14:43:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

having sex with her. He saw her for two months of the time we have been seperated, and the whole time he has said he wants us to get back together. I believe him that he isn't sleeping with her because I don't think he would put me at risk in any way. Why would a guy want to hang out with a girl like that when it is keeping us from getting back together?

2006-12-02 14:43:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was working (I work at a hotel and greet) and I work in this event they have and so they have these ppl performing from a dance studio at the stage ....to get more ppl in..to the exhibit...anyways I had asked r u here for the exhibit? she was like no smiling and saying im performing...and she just like stood they for a while and and I smiled and i was like okay smiling..is this a sign to keep talking to her? cause i found her attractive so i hesistated on whether to keep talking to her thinking it would be strange....she did smile and stop and kinda stare at me for a bit so?

2006-12-02 14:42:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is just a tease?Also,isn't it true that most "teases"are insecure?

2006-12-02 14:41:53 · 5 answers · asked by Nick R 1 in Singles & Dating

because i've seen some that are higher but aren't as big as the smaller carats..... whats the deal?

2006-12-02 14:41:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A firery girl who does gymnastics, plays lax, surf, snowboards, and races cars?? She's not butch but not overly girly. She is sweet but determined. She is 16, 5'1 and like 100lbs. She's also a vegetarian.She's filthy rich but acts down to earth cuz she hates the stereo-type of rich peopleWhat is so wrong with people like my friend?? Some guys love her but others hate her. What's good and bad about her??She knows guys think she's hot and all, but she doesn't get all conceited. We talk to guys and she don't use it against them.




What's the turn-off for all they shy guys that like her?? They like her but never ask her out?? What's the turn-on for the others??

2006-12-02 14:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating