please read..i like a guy i want to tell him i like him(love him) i really dont know him should i just teel him?
and how? do i just tell my friend to tell him cuz im shy?
IM SCARED OF REJECTION
2006-12-02 14:52:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
.i really dont "love" him i just like him a whole lot and im 14
2006-12-02 14:59:09 · update #1
Rejection is the path to confidence and acceptence .... not by others ...but accepting your self for who you are....then others will see your value ..... Be happy for your self ... then seek the company of others.
In short ...suck it up and talk to the man.
If he's says no ...then learn from the time you spent and move on to the next .... life is a game ...start playing it !
Happy Hunting
2006-12-02 14:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT tell him you love him! You can tell him you like him. Or you can have a friend ask him. But don't be scared of rejection. Hold your head high. If he is not interested in you now, he may be later. And if that never happens, just know it's not you. People like other people for reasons that don't involve looks. They just feel comfortable with a person because of the way that person acts, or their background. Have you ever had a friend date a guy and you couldn't understand the attraction? Just be yourself and know that you are great just as you are. :)
2006-12-02 15:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by music buff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about rejection in life you have to take risks no matter the consequences. If you are afraid of rejection then how do you expect to go through anything in life? How do you expect to get into college? How do you expect to get loans? How do you expect to go through life like this? You need to wake up girl! I am doing this for you and hopefully you take my advice and use it to the fullest! Even if you get rejected there are so many other fish in the sea girl just waiting to "take a swim with you"! So keep your head held up high cause one day Mr. Right will be knocking on your door! :-D
2006-12-02 14:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so scared of rejection? Isn't it more scary to think of what would happen if he loves you too?? Rejection is easy...you just walk away and go be depressed. But acceptance...that's what brings on all the problems.
2006-12-02 14:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt have your friend tell him i would just write him a note and give it to him and tell him that if he likes you then he should give you a call and i would put ur # in the letter... most people are scared of rejection its normal... if its meant to be then it will happen.... i wish you luck~
2006-12-02 14:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by *~Rachel~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first you need to get acquainted with him more. You say that you hardly know him. Appearance is not the most important. Maybe while talking to him you will realise that he is totally different from what you expected to find. If still you will like him you may not tell him directly that you like him. You can just show it with your behaviour (flirting, smiling, looking into his eyes...)
2006-12-02 15:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Alina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your IN LOVE and your in a relationship with him,try to see if he likes you and wait about 2 weeks from when you started dating. Try to get the "I love you" back and if you dont, pretend it never happened.
2006-12-02 14:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Riv Re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was afraid of rejection to but it will go away trust me nothing can hurt forever. this isnt going to be the best advice but you should do it yourself because to me it would make you fell better in the future if your stuck in the same situation.also it would be impossible for ur friend to deal with all your future problems
2006-12-02 15:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by crawlingman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you scared of loosing the chance to be friends or talk to them anymore then it's not worth it just afraid of being put down then get over it having somone else do it will only make it alot less likely to succeed and stay together
2006-12-02 14:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by BlueCherubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him becouse if u really like him after u tellhim start to get to know him and if he like you then hey FLIRT but if he dosnt say anything when you tell him dont feel bad just move on but dont be shy
2006-12-02 14:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by A dime piece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋