I 'v thinking of changing my personality. People say i'm weird. Is this good? Would u rather date a talkative?
2006-12-02 14:53:58 · 12 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry! that was a typing error. I meant to say " i'v been thinking".
2006-12-02 14:56:28 · update #1
Don't change your personality! Weird guys are always the most fun and interesting.
2006-12-02 15:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I like "mysterious" guys, however I've liked guys that are not considered to be "mysterious" as well. You should not change your personality for a girl. Chances are that there are girls who look for a guy with your personality. You should go after one of those girls.
There's different definitions of "weird" in my opinion. When I say someone is weird, I actually mean it as a compliment-I normally say it about someone who has an "odd" sense of humor that not many people have,think of odd "what if" situations, etc. I like that in a person. It makes me laugh, and everyone loves to laugh.
For you final question, yes, I would rather date someone who is talkative. This is mainly because I am terrible at starting conversations. If the guy always thought of something to talk about, then I wouldn't have to worry about any awkward silences.
2006-12-02 15:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by WastedPaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself my dear. Being somebody you are not attracts someone else not being who she really is. You would want your girlfriend to be genuine. Be the same for her. "Being mysterious" is an act. Trust me: keeping up an act will get boring very quickly. Imagine holding in your gut all the time. Eventually, if you like the girl, you're going to want to let your gut out and be the real you - and you will resent her for not liking or wanting the real you. Be yourself and that will prevent all this from happening. Good luck.
2006-12-02 14:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change who u are just bcuz people say u r weird. sum pple use to think i was.. but i proved them wronge cuz now i am doin better than most of them people that said that about me. i am a co captain at my skool and i also am head flag girl. well u can email me if u would like at
j_mac_rocks_roof@yahoo.com
2006-12-02 16:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mysterious = Secretive= Liar, No thank you, I would not like this for myself. And you are considering changing your personality, well I must agree with your friends you are a little different. God bless****
2006-12-02 14:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to change your personality. As long as you aren't hurting anyone, you can't be that bad. Enjoy who you are, it'll suck when you want to be you and the girl's wondering why you changed.
2006-12-02 14:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay never change who you are, its just stupid EXPECIALY if its go get a girlfriend. it just leads to problems for example if you get someone to fall in love with you and your not being yourself then its not you they have fallen in love with in the first place. its some imaginary person that doesnt exist.
2006-12-02 15:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by Stephy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change your self just so other people will like you people don't a person that puts up a front( by that i mean lie about who they are!) so don't lie about who you are thats not good and also its not healthy for your mental heath!
2006-12-02 14:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by BaBy PopN' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself......but a little cat and mouse in the beginning helps draw them in.
2006-12-02 14:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by DRNoraSarasin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I want to know everthing, but maybe sometimes. It dependes
2006-12-02 14:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by ROU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋