I'm going crazy,my mom and dad are having a divorce,my family is gossiping to eachother,i can't trust my mom because of the reason that she lies to me and played my dad,and to top it all off, my girlfriend on November 30th (this thursday) broke up with me while i'm visiting family in florida. She lift me for another guy. (u can help by looking for: I just broke up with my girlfriend last night, shes leaving me for another guy named joe.?) She could have slit my wrist and let me bleed to death and that would have felt better than this.I have a friend who is telling me not to do anything, i feel as though there is nothing left to live for, i want to dissapear, and maybe see what happens when i reapear 15 years from now, who would care? My girlfriend has her own story, i'd appreciate it if everyone who sees this looks for that other question that i asked. i just want my life to go better... thank you to everyone that answers this question, and again to those with my girlfriend one...
2006-12-02 14:48:50 · 8 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not by yourself. People get divorced all the time and family gossip is nothing abnormal. All families do it. Can I tell you something though??? You'll be all right. Everything is happening for a reason. Just hang in there and take it one day at a time. If your g/f dumped you for another guy - then you were better off without her. You deserve better and in time, you'll get better. It takes time to get over obstacles honey - nothing will happen overnight. If your mom lied to you - it probably wasn't to hurt you - more maybe to protect you or for you not to see what's really going on because kids shouldn't be involved with anything negative going on with the parents. She may have not wanted you to feel like it was your fault or anything. It'll be okay though. May not seem like it now - but in time, you'll look back and see that you are a lot stronger than you realize. You will meet other people and you will have another g/f - one who appreciates you and treats you like a person. One more thing to think about sweetie: whatever you are going through.......there is someone out there in this world that is going through something a lot worse. I promise you it'll be okay. Take it from someone that never had a real family. No family is perfect and even though your parents are splitting up - doesn't mean that they don't love you and doesn't mean you won't see them again. I do wish you luck and Merry X-mas by the way.
2006-12-02 15:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year from now, you may look back and see how much things have improved . The girlfriend..... be glad that you didn't marry her and then had her do this to you. You sound like a nice guy and she will probably end up feeling regret about the break up, but you got lucky and found out what she was really like before a
wedding or anything. I am so sorry for all of the turmoil you are going through right now, within your family. Have you considered just giving yourself some distance?
Things will get better, I can see that even from WAY over here in Indiana, USA !
Keep your head up !
2006-12-02 22:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You only think there's nothing left because you've seen somewhat better people that struggle just to eat every day and make enough money to live or wear clothes are less selfish because of it some people spend the rest of their life in a coma or have it all then die a month later of cancer or get run over by a car and it's all gone enjoy your friends or the hobbies you have or get new ones if you don't like the people around you move to another country example:asian countries are far enough away that you'll never hear from anyone again but still advanced and great to live in
2006-12-02 22:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by BlueCherubi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say how old you are, but I'm going to assume you are young. You have alot on you plate right now. First of all, there is nothing you can do for you mom and dad, they are going to have to work things out the best they can. The only thing you can do is be nice to both of them, they have a lot on their plates too. About your girlfriend...trust me...it is not the end of the world. It WILL get better. The best way to get someone back is to be happy. Smile, look like you are having a good time. Pretty soon, you will start to believe it. People like to be around happy people. (Even if you don't feel like it, pretend...keep it up and you won't be pretending any more) Even if she's not "the one" don't sweat it, you will find one you like better...if it was ment to be, it will be.
2006-12-02 22:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry life is sucking for you right now. Just keep in mind that things will get better....it just takes time. You are better off without that girl if she can do that to you. You deserve better. As far as your mom and dad and rest of the family, it will get better, but it will take a while for feelings to settle and things to calm down. Hang in there and concentrate on things that you love in the mean time. Good Luck.
2006-12-02 22:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by D R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always remember there are alot of fish in the sea, if this girl left you for another guy then you can do better, you want someone who also wants you, not you and someone else, as for the parents getting divorced I am sorry and I will pray for you and for your heart to heal, I am sure you are hurting, but it will be ok, maybe you need to sit down and tell your mom how you feel it always feels better to talk about it. stay strong, if you ever need to talk you feel free to email me anytime, debbie_klly@yahoo.com
2006-12-02 22:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by debbie k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude that is worng what is happining to you right now but from my experience if you were to disappear it wouldnt solve your problems and people do care even though it does not seem like it your a major part of somones life
2006-12-02 22:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by crawlingman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Didn't you do this last night?
2006-12-02 22:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋