my ex had a seriose substance abuse problem, i met him at 15, and broke up at 18 the time of my life when I had many problems and no peers to help me appart fom him. Until recently he has stopped using substances, which has left him with a really nice and sweet persionality, but at times he becomes really paranoid, thse are the side effects of him not taking drugs. He had to give up drugs as he recently got in trouble with the law for pestering me ( he was very mad when he was on drugs, I was not aware at the that time of his addiction) I find it really hard to let go as he has always hassald me since we broke up, I would never consider going back to him, as he has caused too much trouble and pain for me, we have a child together he has no contact , but why do I feel devestated when I think about never being able to talk to him on the phone again or imagining cutting all links? he treated me so badly when he was on drugs, I would never go bk, but cant let go please help thankyou !!
2006-12-01
08:32:18
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sweetlikehoney_73
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Marriage & Divorce