i would like to know what can i do to let her know that i need her, cuz is really difficuld with the "mood swims, i dok't know what to do....is my marriage in danger?
2006-12-01 08:30:09 · 12 answers · asked by Evil Dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Her body is going through a lot...all in order to give the two of you a wonderful baby to raise...a family...she will bear most of the burden of carrying that child and bringing it into the world...your role in all of this is to support, protect and love her while she is going through this.....yes, because of the hormone changes, she will have mood swings...try not to react negatively....no matter how difficult it is at times..be supportive and loving....your marriage will only be in danger if you are not a loving husband that recognizes what is happening here.....go with it and do your best....good luck and I hope the baby is healthy and happy and the two of you are mature enough to enjoy your wonderful new family.
2006-12-01 08:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need her, you need her to give you the attention she did before she was pregnant. You've admitted to feeling left out. Yes, your marriage is in trouble if you're jealous of a baby that isn't even here yet. If you truly need her, then help makes things easier for her. Help around the house, understand what her body is going through to bring YOUR child into the world.
2006-12-01 08:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by Debra D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing to worry it is temporarilly it is hormones that she is going thorugh... I'm also pregnant (7 months) my hubby and I haven't had sex in a while because of how I feel but he understands and has being patient, but I try to help him release his stress maybe with a hand job or other ways you know to please him... But just show her that you love her and support her but also be patient as soon as the pregnancy ends you can continue with your normal life ... GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-01 09:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need her in what way sexually? I mean talk to her delicately. Besides there a ways she can still satisfy you sexually. Its not easy being pregnant your body changes as well as your emotions. She is going through alot right now. Trust me it is not easy. Just be there for her when the pregnancy is over she will love you soooo much for your support.
2006-12-01 08:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your marriage is not in danger...mood swings are temporary.. make sure u go with her to her doctor appointments, make sure you rub her tummy and show her as much love as u possibly can.
2006-12-01 08:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage is not in danger. You just need to try and adjust to not being her main priority. Try talking to her, and make plans to do things together. This may help bring you closer.
2006-12-01 08:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by bandtarndt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel left out now and she is only pregnant, then sweetheart you are going to be really left out after the baby is born.
2006-12-01 08:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
normal feelings for sure..
imagine hers ?
& once the baby is born, it's all gonna be about it
& you both will feel a whole different bunch of feelings...
hang in there & I sure hope you 2 are mature enough to enjoy what is the biggest miracle there is...creating life....
2006-12-01 09:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not left out she just has a lot of worries in her head.
2006-12-01 08:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by lll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry it will only last 2 years.
2006-12-01 08:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋