Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

I do not understand. I am a very kind, caring gentle compassionate, male. Yet women never seem interested in me unless they are divorced with children and need money!I am ok looking . What do women really want?Please do not reply with every women is different. I have not found that.

2006-11-29 23:05:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im seeing someone who's always needy. They ask for money & says will pay me back when they get paid but never do. We are seeing each other but Im in a relationship & my partner is very self-sufficient. The one Im seeing is very needy, which is a BIG turnoff to me. How do i tell her that im not giving her anymore & she needs to stand on her own 2 feet and stop putting herself in these financial binds?

2006-11-29 23:04:44 · 9 answers · asked by jlicious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex is due to come out ov prison in20 days he finished because he didnt want me waiting we never had contact for a few months but latley he has been in a open prison and getting out on day relise and having home visits so he has been calling me and coming round to see me when i asked him if we were going to get back together he said he didnt no if he wanted a anything serious yet i still love him very much wot shold i do?

2006-11-29 23:03:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 23:02:18 · 9 answers · asked by Sheeth 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 23:00:56 · 6 answers · asked by akaj 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 23:00:40 · 1 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Friends

I'm thinking about creating a personal advert, which of the following drafts do you think sound the best?

Bored, depressed, unemployed, clean, 32 year old male Cure fan seeks 5 disenchanted bi females (C cup minimum, no shorter than 5' 4" in height and aged between 19 to 35 years old) for fresh fruit orgy.

Or

Unemployable artist, 5' 10", blue/grey eyes, no money, no car, no physique & no sense of humour seeks bored, curvy, busty & attractive lady (brown or green eyes, aged under 50, size dress 16 to 20) with own car for oral and vaginal sex in public places, relationship hopefully to develop into bareback anal sex in local Tesco car park next Wednesday evening between 10 and 11pm.

2006-11-29 22:58:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my marriage is on the verge of divorce. my husband is an asshole... he's mean... he says bad things to me, call me names, and hurts my feelings on purpose... he threatens to throw me in jail (even if he has to plant something to make it happen)... he threatens to take my son to NY and never let me see him... i don't have a job or any money saved b/c i've been at home taking care of our son instead... so i'm afraid to leave b/c of that alone. the thing is, we're a military family, and they offer marriage counseling for free here on post... i'm willing to go... but my husband is not... it's useless to try and talk to him about anything b/c all he does is blame everything on me... he says that nothings wrong with him (he's in denial) and that everything that's wrong in our marriage is b/c of me... he's real good at making me feel like nothing... question is, if you were me, what would you do? i'm lost... and don't know what to do...

2006-11-29 22:57:28 · 26 answers · asked by brandiamour 2 in Marriage & Divorce

iam newly married in joint family i am smart compare to my husband . he is very serious & not so romantic. i love him very much. muje abhi pata chala ki he is used to smoke & drink also.my paternal belong to very religious family. i never seen like this before what should i do. how can i tackle this situation

2006-11-29 22:57:16 · 18 answers · asked by khushi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 22:56:54 · 8 answers · asked by fire_breather89 1 in Singles & Dating

so it is nice weather isnt it, how does it rain cats and dogs i neva seen it who has?

2006-11-29 22:56:42 · 4 answers · asked by u neva guess wot 1 in Friends

This guy I like has been signalling me since christmas, infront of a lady who is very jealous of me. he has been hinting at marriage.
I politely kept quiet, but then he slyly gave me his number and email and I started to email him but he replied only twice by email and replied to me in person. yesterday he claimed that this was all in my head and that i was intruding in his space.
I walked off on him. whenever we went out he would rub his leg against mine and sing songs.
yet when I emailed he just went bannanas
I am better off without him but i still want him

2006-11-29 22:56:34 · 11 answers · asked by Mother of Tae Kwon Do 2 in Singles & Dating

I've just started a new relationship, about two months in, and we have been spending a great deal of time together. My girlfriend has a 5 year old daughter whose father is not in the picture. My girlfriends daughter is starting to play up and getting a bit jealous of our relationship. I have spent a lot of fun time with the daughter and tried to do things together. We are now at a point were the daughter is starting to rescent me and I am backing away because I don't want her to hate me. I have talked openly with my GF about spending less time together, so they can spend a bit more quality time together, but she see's me as getting cold feet. I seriously want to be a big part of both their lives, but don't want to intrude either.

2006-11-29 22:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by gibsonperkins 1 in Family

akon, well akon got his name coz hes a convict. and people call it short as a con, so instead of a con, hes done Akon

get it?

2006-11-29 22:55:13 · 18 answers · asked by u neva guess wot 1 in Singles & Dating

well im 25 yrs old and still a virgin, i had a bad experience with someone in my teens and it has more or less riuned my life ( i wasnt raped tough)!! im a pretty good lookin girl i never have an actual problem attracing men and have been and played a little with with many fellas but when thing start to get intamate i just freak out . i am also a bot shy bout my body coz im neither fat nor skinny..now i am panaicing coz ill end up on my own like really what man is going to like a girl like me or even have de patience for me!!

2006-11-29 22:55:06 · 11 answers · asked by simply B 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm engaged in a sexual fling with a married man. We had an impromptu encounter today and I suggested we have sex versus just oral. We've had sex before and we always used a condom. He refused to have unprotected sex even after I said it wasn't a problem.

Is he just being cautious or does he think I have a disease?

2006-11-29 22:54:40 · 20 answers · asked by buffybeast 2 in Singles & Dating

is it right to see someone if both parents dont like each other and the partner and you could end up walking into a relationship were both parents disown you but you love each other more then anything in the world?

2006-11-29 22:53:27 · 2 answers · asked by Chel1525 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex of 4 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago will she be thinking off me!!!
will she be thinking of the good times or the bad!!!!!!!
we split well no shouting just crying she said she does love me and wants to see what happens as friends!!!!!!!But what will she be thinking will she be sad ,happy,confussed i'm just deppressed and hope she is having problems 2 not to that i want her to be, just so i no it works both ways so anyone that has done the breaking up with there boyfriend how did you feel did you want to call them see them our where you waiting for them to call any real help would be great thanks!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-29 22:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can she be that lady?!?! that person

2006-11-29 22:52:40 · 16 answers · asked by u neva guess wot 1 in Singles & Dating

when you are talking to someone and you have forgotten their name?

2006-11-29 22:51:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 22:51:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-29 22:51:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex G/F of 4 years (split with me 4 months ago) was at my house returning my camera, she was talkin to my house mate, (i was away for the weekend) she was asking how i was ? and trying to get info on this new gal im kinda seeing ? why whould she do this ? she split up with ME !

(we are both early 20's )

2006-11-29 22:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love is perhaps the only commodity in love that cannot be bought.
U can not buy it, work for it, force it, etc.. U can only get love if the other person chooses to love u. (only talking about love between a man & woman) But if one really wants it, or needs it or desires it, how does one get it? And I don't mean sex either. I meant the emotional between a man & a woman. Also, if u want it so much but don't get it, is there any alternative thing that can replace love?

2006-11-29 22:47:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And if they do how is it possible

2006-11-29 22:47:12 · 14 answers · asked by KANEBRO2DANITE 2 in Singles & Dating

We already have two daughters (9&7). My husband is 40 and i am 30, have been married for 10 years now. Everyone around keeps telling me i should have another baby. My husband keeps telling me he has no problem, having or not having another baby, he will still be happy, but then i hear him asking our daughters do you wish to have a new sister or brother? And their answer was a big YES.
I do not know what i should do. i love my family a lot , more than anything else and yet i do not think i can go through all this again, i do not have this patience anymore. I think in my age now i need to relax and look after myself and my family too.
Do you think i am being selfish to think that way?

2006-11-29 22:46:02 · 14 answers · asked by green eyes 2 in Family

2006-11-29 22:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why cant he call me?

2006-11-29 22:44:05 · 40 answers · asked by sonai 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

mine was johnny

2006-11-29 22:44:00 · 11 answers · asked by TiGa 2 in Friends

my boyfriend of almost two years told me he doesnt want me around anymore. He's really busy and he says im not maturing, i dont understand him, i demand too much from him, i love him too much, i depend on him too much, and im too emotional. I asked him to just end it up instead of leaving me hanging - but he wouldn't break it off. He said he'll just let things be. I dont want to call him since he said im too dependent. But im really hurting. and i still love him. Should i wait? He did this to me i think 4 times already - and the last three times, i asked him back. but its so god damn painful now - not to mention my lowered self esteem. advise please. =,(

2006-11-29 22:42:56 · 16 answers · asked by illusory_angel 2 in Singles & Dating