Im seeing someone who's always needy. They ask for money & says will pay me back when they get paid but never do. We are seeing each other but Im in a relationship & my partner is very self-sufficient. The one Im seeing is very needy, which is a BIG turnoff to me. How do i tell her that im not giving her anymore & she needs to stand on her own 2 feet and stop putting herself in these financial binds?
2006-11-29 23:04:44 · 9 answers · asked by jlicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You tell her exactly what you said in your last sentence, that you are not giving her anymore, stand on her own 2 feet and stop putting herself in these financial binds...everybody needs to be responsible for THEMSELF. If it was a one time thing AND you were paid back, that would be a different story, you want to help when you can. That is not what this is about, this is turning into a habit.
2006-11-29 23:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look her in the eye and say "You've got to stand on your own two feet and stop asking me for Fu###ing money IS THAT CLEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!" And then say. "Oh! by the way, I'm in another relationship That should get her attention and I guarantee she'll pi##s off! Have a good day!
2006-11-30 07:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered that yourself in your question
"im not giving {you} anymore" & "{you} needs to stand on {your} own 2 feet and stop putting {your}self in these financial binds"
2006-11-30 07:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
With the behavior you are describing, I would say, simply "No". And, I would seriously consider seeing someone else. Can the sex be that good? Because this is NOT going to get better!
2006-11-30 07:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by know_it_all_NOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you just state it, is the best way to tell her, people like that don't need any kind words to wake them up and its time you stand up for yourself. I hope she is not using you and I think its time you send her on her way.
2006-11-30 07:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by confussie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would simply end the relationship. You're not a bank.
2006-11-30 07:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ask them to lend you money.
2006-11-30 07:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, honestly, that enough is enough, and she's on her own now!
2006-11-30 07:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No
2006-11-30 07:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by reeree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋