why cant he call me?
2006-11-29 22:44:05 · 40 answers · asked by sonai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He does not want to call you that's why!! Why should he call you.
You want to die? What you need to do is grow up!
You knew the significance of your virginity and it seems you just gave it away to an idiot who you knew nothing about. Your virginity means nothing to HIM!!
Why do you think he owes you at least a phone call simply because he broke your virginity? Is that all your virginity is worth... a phone call? I don't even know you and you have made me so angry with you.
DO NOT CALL THIS GUY AGAIN!! HE HAS TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF YOU!
Put the whole episode down to experience and when you meet someone else, get to know him before you sleep with him.
this situation is not worth dying over. As you grow older you will experience more worthier things.
2006-11-29 22:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you must feel really awful just now but it won't seem so bad further down the line. Practically nobody ends up living happily ever after with the person they lose their virginity to. Look on the bright side: when someone comes along who is not a total sleazeball - like that guy - at least you'll have a bit of experience and will probably be able to enjoy the sex more. Just make sure he's the right guy first.
2006-11-29 22:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth saying you want to die over it. Yes it hurts and it will do for a while because you feel betrayed and let down by someone you trusted.
The best thing to do is move on. Put it down to experience and be more careful that you don't get carried away in the future and suffer the same fate. Save yourself now for someone you love. Trust me because i wish i had.
I'm hoping you used protection and if you're not sure i suggest going down to your nearest sexual health clinic (which is totally discreet by the way) and get yourself checked out. Just to be on the safe side.
Obviously there's the obvious pregnancy stuff but also STI's. I get the feeling that if he's done it to you he's done it before and will continue to do so, so just make sure he didn't give you anything when he took your virginity away.
Good luck with everything.
xxx
2006-11-29 22:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious about the dying bit - or are you just saying it the way we all say it when things get like sh*te?
F.Y.I. I know personally 4 girls who had sex with blokes, for the first time in each case, and then were never contacted by the fellows ever again - a fact that is quite worrying actually. Anyway, cheer up, you're not the only one!!!!! Life's much too valuable to be wasting mooning over a man who is obviously not good enough for you. You'll find someone better. Or who knows, maybe he will call you........:)
2006-11-29 22:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by mockturtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is of little account in these days hon! The main thing is your emotional feelings have been hurt! And the reason he has not contacted you is because he's had a 'Conquest' and he's of chasing after another one! Just be thankful that the relationship did not go any further, so that he cant hurt you anymore! You have a good day hon, and forget him! There are some good guy's out there, and I bet you'll find one!
2006-11-29 22:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i incase u havnt realised yet but there is no such thing as love it is a made up fairytale thing day by day more and more people are realising it which is why last year 69% of marriages ended in divorce god knows what it is this year, we are the only species that does marriage and love ect, and you must remember that we havnt always had marriage and love it was made at at some point in time meaning that it isnt realy, animals dont fall in love..... because its all bollocks, the sooner you realise that the better, these days the only reason people are together is because they dont want to die alone, sooner or later u will always get fed up of the person you are with coz there really is no such thing as love u have to ask yourself the question if nobody told you about love, what it is ect. would you still fall in love??? course you wouldnt coz its not real same as gay people if gay was never made up by some "out of the box thinker" it wouldnt exsist there wouldnt be gay people, because our minds are so into deep thinking ect we question alot of things we hear about which is why u get people thinking "hold on maybe i am gay" and get people becoming gay or u get people thinking"hold on maybe i am in love" just because some philosopher at one stage invented these stupid things that arent real or natural because if they were they would happen naturally but they dont they happen because of our environment that we live in! works for all religion too! naive people cant see this tho. sorry for the essay! lol but its a true fact
2006-11-29 22:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by jay a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
welcome to the wonderful world of sexual relationships, you will find as you get older and more experienced that some guys are only interested in a girl for one thing which is sex then they move on to their next target, fortunately not all guys are like that but you will meet them, so think before you do anything, do you really like this guy is it what you want and would he be willing to take things slowly if a guy likes you then he wont mind waiting till you feel ready and always remember safe sex....good luck and don't let this guy put you off find someone who can be kind and gentle and enjoy
2006-11-29 23:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this guy does not have your number, or maybe he was only looking for some fun. Not all guys want to commit, and the only way they get away without you causing a fuss is by asking you for your number and saying they will call you, even though they have no intention of doing so.
2006-11-29 22:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but that's just how some guys are. He got what he wanted, and will now move on to his next conquest. Consider it a lesson learned, and be more careful next time. You can't get your virginity back, but you can learn to recognize when a guy is just with you for sex. Good luck!
2006-11-29 22:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all a learning experience! sadly there are people out there that do things like that, that is the world and its up to you to pick out the good ones! Unfortunately you made a mistake believing this guy. Experience comes with age and the only way to learn is to get burned a few times...
2006-11-29 23:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋