my ex is due to come out ov prison in20 days he finished because he didnt want me waiting we never had contact for a few months but latley he has been in a open prison and getting out on day relise and having home visits so he has been calling me and coming round to see me when i asked him if we were going to get back together he said he didnt no if he wanted a anything serious yet i still love him very much wot shold i do?
2006-11-29 23:03:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thankyou to the people who have not been judgemental he aint no crim he got into a fight and he ended up the 1 getting into trouble he aint no idiot he has his own buisness it was the first time he had been in trouble
2006-11-29 23:45:52 · update #1
That is a question only you can answer
You need to weigh the pros and cons of the situation!
2006-11-29 23:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say what he was in prison for. A lot of people are being very judgmental here. Decide for yourself whether you want to be connected with someone convicted of his crimes and who now has a criminal record.
Prison changes people and he may not be the same as he was before he went in. He probably feels the need to stretch his wings some after being in a cage and it sounds like you don't fit into his plans right now. I'd hang back and try not to get involved - wait and see what he's like before committing to anything with him.
2006-11-29 23:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Crispy. Give him space and time to figure things out, so much will have happened that he is bound to be confused and been left feeling isolated and disjointed from "normal" life. Be there if he needs you but maintain a dignified distance.......let him be the one to approach you.
Just because someone has done time, that doesn't make them evil to the core.........ignore these puerile idiots. If you truly love him then that love will know no obstacles, if it is reciprocated then you guys shoudl work things out.
Give him time to adjust.
2006-11-29 23:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space and some time. He's going to need time to adjust. It can be really hard, especially if he was in for awhile. Let him adjust gradually. Also, take some time to see that he's going to go straight and not do anything that'll land him back in. Let him have a little time to figure out who he wants to be and what he wants to do with his life. Let him get settled. Then see. Okay?
2006-11-29 23:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by crispy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by minick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have anything to do with a guy who has been to prison. Your best bet is to change your phone number and move on from him. Find someone decent.
2006-11-29 23:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st off why would you want someone that has a criminal record and background---This person will find it difficult to find employment and you shouldn't want him being co-dependant on you!
Keep this person an X and don't be so quick to let him fall back into your life---have some self-pride and self-respect for yourself! you're really coming off like your quite desperate!
2006-11-29 23:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You owe it to yourself to find a guy of higher moral standing. If you see him and it eventually breaks up, you will be known as the girl who dates ex cons:(
2006-11-29 23:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dnt bother with him cuz goign out with a x con is bad carma so if i was u id chuck him away and get someone else
but if u dnt ur makin a big mistake
2006-11-29 23:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
normal people dont go to prison, wake up, love or not he is bad news
2006-11-29 23:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋