My ex G/F of 4 years (split with me 4 months ago) was at my house returning my camera, she was talkin to my house mate, (i was away for the weekend) she was asking how i was ? and trying to get info on this new gal im kinda seeing ? why whould she do this ? she split up with ME !
(we are both early 20's )
2006-11-29 22:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because she broke up with you doesn't meen that she doesn't care about you. There was something there that was the glue to keep you together that long.
Four years is a long time in the scheme of life to invest in a relationship. How can she just walk away and never look back? That is not reality for most people.
2006-11-29 22:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,, if yall were together for four years and you are both in your early 20's then you both got together at a very early age...She probably just alittle curious of your new gal...Like others have said maybe she realizes what she has lost...If your happy with the new person in your life then dont worry ok and just be happy..Just surprises me though that people are together for a length of time cuz 4 yrs is quite a while,,and in 4 months you found someone else...Which could be a good thing but maybe cuz she hasnt gotten over you enough yet it still hurts alittle...Of course she left you and hopefully she told you why...But I would just be happy...You will be with who God tends you to be with...Have a great time in life and be safe ok..God bless
2006-11-30 06:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could just be curious or she could be interested in seeing if you have moved on or not. That doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to get back with you, but a lot of time women want to have a "safety net" for themselves so that she knows what is going on with you "just in case" things get lonely for her. Most women do not want to be alone all of their life and they like to keep tabs on all of their "friends."
She might be the type of girl who gets jealous and wants to claim "her" territory. She also might feel guilty and just want to know that you are doing okay so she can sleep at night.
You seem like you are still really into her and want her back. Right now the best you can do is to really focus on you and your life. She didn't want you so let her stew in her own juices a bit while you go out and have some fun!
2006-11-30 06:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Alex G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people want what they cant have and for women especially in my opinion. they wanna think we wont do better than them. like they ruined us for the female sex. so more than likely she is suprised you rebounded so fast. then the question or them becomes "if he loved me so much why could he move on so fast?" then they wanna find out the answer and that intrigue turns to what can look like feelings of emotion. ITS CRAP! DONT FALL FOR IT!! 4 years dont mean anything cause apparently they werent important enough for her to stay with you. dont get caught up again. move on with your life. the best revenge is letting her see you happy with someone who isnt her
2006-12-01 04:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by happylilsmigger02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are split up, does not mean there is not concern
Besides she returned your camera
2006-11-30 06:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Curiosity, you were together for four years, so she probably wonders how you're doing. She may still care for you as a friend, but not as a boyfriend.
2006-11-30 06:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She just wants to see if you are really over her. Get on with your life.
2006-11-30 06:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She wants to know what is going on in your life
2006-11-30 06:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Curiousity just wants to know if you are over her.
2006-11-30 06:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry about it...get on with your life and tell your housemate to tell her you are happy and well and ....better off!
2006-11-30 06:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋