Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

The wife and baby thing just kind of happened and now I'm like `woah what just happened' hope this doesn't ruin my freedom? Well, does it? Or am I now even more attractive? When women see the ring and the cute baby photos, is it a turn-off or turn-on?

2006-11-29 20:15:40 · 16 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 20:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by missy 2 in Singles & Dating

Just asking?

2006-11-29 20:13:52 · 18 answers · asked by Nurse Raina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not good with words, I tried being myself, that didn't work, I'm the shortest person in the class. I've never had a girlfriend, so I don't have much charm. What do I do to get at least 1 girlfriend by the time I'm 25 years old?

2006-11-29 20:13:33 · 7 answers · asked by Joshua Felvus 1 in Singles & Dating

I have worked for this company for about 2.5 years and work with all guys. My b.f. used to work here and knows all the guys I work with. B4 I started going out with him (we are now living together) I used to go out to eat occasionaly with one of my guy friends. No romantic intentions at all. So after I started going out with my guy I let him know about 1 time I went out to eat with the guy. Then another time on Friday after work had a couple beers with the guy in my car. Told my b.f. about it, because I didnt think anything of it. He thinks I cheated, and I promised it was only a really stupid mistake and that I had no bad intentions. I was 100% honest with him. Will NEVER do it again. So now he LIED to me about getting a girls number and calling her. His intention is to cheat. Do you think I cheated or am I just guilty of doing a stupid thing? What should I do about him cheating and lying now? Do I deserve this? I meant no harm and was very honest and sorry to him.

2006-11-29 20:11:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive Known this girl for a few years now, but we just started dated 3 weeks ago, When were together I feel like im in heaven, I constantly smile, I enjoy her, shes so wonderful!! But when Im not with her, i cant seem to stop thinking about her with another man. We've talked about trusting and cheating before, but because of my past relationships I am unsure. I will not leave her, I care for her, and she cares about me. But i cant go on thinking she will play me. I dont ever even consider talking to other women anymore. But sometimes I feel i should, so that it ever happens I can say I was right. What do you think i should do? PLEASE HELP

2006-11-29 20:10:14 · 6 answers · asked by Bme C 1 in Singles & Dating

She is very kind and caring to me in every way and deserves something nice but I am short of money, I have a budget of about two pounds.

2006-11-29 20:09:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister's on heroine. I love her to death and I love her kids like I love my own, but lately it has just been getting to be to much. Johnny Jr. (Her son) sat on the couch and a needle broke the skin on his bottom, do to her incompatence. I was there, heart broken i lashed out. I don't wanna turn her in, but we dont have the test results ofr johnny yet, but I have seen her share needles before....She cant get treatment because no one can take care of her kids (I have barely enough money to take care of my own) Some one please help me and give me some info....This is a life or death matter PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!.

2006-11-29 20:08:58 · 5 answers · asked by help you 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that women want good men to love, be supportive, and father their children in a respectful and Godly manner yet they only want to date men with a player attitude? I mean, I'm married but I've noticed my friends saying that if a guy isn't very active in going out all the time then he gets called boring. So do you actually want a guy who wants to go out all the time or do you want a guy who is more into the simple things in life and wants to start a family someday? I think that girls want their cake and eat it too. They want a "good man" but he has to have the bad boy image or his *** is out. For the most part you just can't have it both ways! Why do women do this?

2006-11-29 20:07:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's the best way for a girl to tell a guy she's crushing on him?

2006-11-29 20:07:40 · 6 answers · asked by paipaisiomai 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 22, currently in a dead end relationship. For some reason, I'm beginning to get this sense of urgency in finding a potential husband. I mean, ideally I'd like to get married around 27 or 28. Right now I feel like I need to find a nice boy. Date him for a few years... if it works out, get engaged... if it doesn't work out, find someone else. This sounds perfectly logical right? I want to fulfill my goals within a certain timeframe. Yet at the same time... it seems irrational. What do you think?

2006-11-29 20:04:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 20:02:09 · 28 answers · asked by Distant V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP.

Zim

2006-11-29 20:01:40 · 9 answers · asked by Joshua Felvus 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 20:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by greeneyes 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 19:59:58 · 23 answers · asked by ridhi m 2 in Singles & Dating

If you are in a relationship for more than 2 yrs and you love this person so much.But the only problem is that whenever after a night out, and he is quite drunk, he verbally and physically abused you. This only happens maybe once in 2 months.and at each occasion he apologize and promise it won't happen again and he will change. I know it is wrong but whenever he is not drunk he is so nice and loving.

2006-11-29 19:57:10 · 14 answers · asked by sweety 2 in Singles & Dating

You've got enough money for a round-trip ticket, 1st Class, a 5-star hotel for a week and play money...go nuts! Let's make it a total of $15,000

2006-11-29 19:56:21 · 19 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay well I broke up with my ex 3 months ago... and I met this other really great guy.... He's so sweet, he calls me babe, sends me kisses and hugs, calls me gorgeous, and plays with my hair n that sort of stuff.... But the problem is I'm too scared to ask him out, because I'm afraid of being rejected... I like him alot though... Advice please =)

2006-11-29 19:56:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 19:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by Nurse Raina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 19:54:38 · 7 answers · asked by Nurse Raina 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been up all night checking out my boyfriends phone records. He says he isnt talking to anyone. Well he Has talked to "her" (his ex wife- married for 10 years) since April every month except July. Should I even care? They were married after all- and we arent. Why do I care that he talks to her? And HOW do I stop checking into it? I hate this!! Please help me stop!!??

2006-11-29 19:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by tbaby 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfiend is frigid and is very shy when i comes down to it.
im up for anything but i would like to know if there is an easy but interresting position for us to do. please help!!!!

2006-11-29 19:52:51 · 23 answers · asked by charlie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The problem is she always brings religion in our relationship saying this cant last long.Right now i'm in canda for study purpose and 19 yrs old. Does the religion matters in the relationship when all are one?

2006-11-29 19:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by Element 115 2 in Friends

My boyfriend asked me to move in with him. We've been dating for a month now. We used to date a long time ago. I have an 18 month old son, and he still wants us to move in with him. He lives 2 hours from me now. I would love to live with him or atleast closer. But I'm not sure if I should wait or just go ahead with it. Everything feels right, but I just want some other opinion.

2006-11-29 19:52:20 · 5 answers · asked by heather_21_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

We don't get to do much together anymore, anyone got any ideas on what things we could do?

2006-11-29 19:51:03 · 16 answers · asked by adams girl 2 in Family

what i was actually looking for was some nice or funny little stories of love to brighten up my miserable thursday morning.If i actually had any issues i wouldnt be posting them on a site like this.But i can appreciate the response as most that post on singles/dating are tragic.So again,has anyone got any cute stories to restore my faith in love?

2006-11-29 19:48:48 · 19 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm attracted to others but I see myself marrying a white girl.

2006-11-29 19:48:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had it, but we have 2 young kids so I am thinking one last time together would be nice. Yes, been to counseling too.

2006-11-29 19:47:44 · 12 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hear girls make this generalization a lot and I hate it. I actually think about it very little. Days where I don't think about it at all outnumber days where I do. I also have plenty of male friends who think about it very little (I know it's impossible to not think about it at all, being human). Why do girls make that somewhat hurtful generalization?

2006-11-29 19:46:07 · 26 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

all the girls at work seem to have a contest going on who i will want. im almost ready to chose but she has some characteristics of kim that i hate. what do i do?

2006-11-29 19:45:47 · 8 answers · asked by xinnocentxdragonx 1 in Singles & Dating