The wife and baby thing just kind of happened and now I'm like `woah what just happened' hope this doesn't ruin my freedom? Well, does it? Or am I now even more attractive? When women see the ring and the cute baby photos, is it a turn-off or turn-on?
2006-11-29 20:15:40 · 16 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i didn't exactly ask her to marry me, you see, the baby was coming first. luckily, the wife is really sweet and cute and the baby will be just beautiful. she already had the sonogram and it's big already, just 2 months. the only problem is, well..... that it had to happen this way and here i have been having one #1 mission in life - to bag as many chicks as possible. how am I supposed to deal with it when the end result actually happens?
2006-11-29 20:37:31 · update #1
:) You are still attractive. A family of your own doesn't mean end of the freedom. Not at all. You are lucky to have them. As far as turning women on or off. it totally and completely depends on you, your nature, your attitute, there is no coonection with your baby.
I would like to talk with you........ you seem to be very interesting :)
NOTE : i am taking about your individuality only.
"You are still attactive" -- doesn't mean that you should see another women.
You are a DAD , you need to be a responsible person.
Love your family that's the best thing to do
Well best of luck with your wife and your cute Baby .
Byee !
2006-11-29 20:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're married...why are you interested to know if other women find that you being a husband and father is more attractive or not. Did you possibly marry young and have a baby very early in your marriage? If so, no wonder you are remarking on comments of your freedom. A person should 'sow their oats' before they make a commitment of his heart to a woman. A man and woman should discover each other as husband and wife before bringing a baby into the mix. Some marry simply because they have so much fun together and love each...marriage is more than that. Some people have a baby simply beause they can...yet there is responsibility, committments and sacrifices to choosing to have a baby. I think poeple just think of the fun for the moment thought and don't responsibily think realistically of the future...even just 9 months or 3 years into the future. Ask yourself this...think if we were reading your wife's posed question here asking the same as your're asking . . . Whoa...I just had a baby...does this ruin my freedom or am I now even more attractive to men. When men see the ring and cute baby photos does it turn men on or off...and there you are, innocently off the the side holding your little baby while you're wife is having these questions here. Shame on you. You made a concioius choice to ask a woman to marry you...you planted your seed in her and she became pregnant and here you are ready to brush your wife off to the side with your own baby while you entice your mind the the other woman. It's the variety for men isn't it? I'm not mad. Simply annoyed at the hurt and ignorance of some men (some women too), but in this case you brought this on your own plate...so here's my opinion...I feel hurt for your wife and child...and shame on you.
2006-11-30 04:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,, since you have a wife and a baby no matter how it happened has stopped your freedom in one way...Why are you worried about being attractive to other women? If you dont love your wife why did you marry her?? A true man stands by his wife..You have a responsibility when yall brought a baby into this world..I dont understand that guys go and marry girls and have children then worry if other women will want them...Dont use your family to get other women..That is so wrong...If you dont love your wife enough to remain faithful to her then you need a divorce but dont use your family...May the Lord help you
2006-11-30 04:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by glowworm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it was your freedom that landed you in this boat to begin with! I feel so sorry for your wife, she deserves so much more from you. wise up and realize that you havent lost your freedom only that you now have the freedom of choice to now be an outstanding husband and a great father! you just gained more choices to choose from. If you truely feel in your heart that you cant and wont stop seeking out other women to "bag" then give your wife her freedom to be with someone who will be loyal to her.
2006-11-30 16:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wows to u! I hope ur life starts going better for you. you may consider engage ur brain b4 you make major life decisions like getting married. To address the baby thing, b4 u have 6 more please consider that life is hard and not everyone wants to be born, please don't just go around making people, u hardly seem qualified.
this is easily the most pathetic question i have read yet. I hope ur wife meets a real man and divorces you soon!
2006-11-30 04:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very sad man. If you cant commit to your wife and baby then leave she will be better off without in the long run by the sounds of it
2006-11-30 04:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by bodecia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the kind of guy who breaks the most precious hard to find womens hearts and make them unberably insane with pain and guild for having a baby,you have no clue what she went through to have a child did she really want to even marry you probbably only did because of the child step up to her and your child or leave her your not doing her any favours by staying with her,and oh when women know your married with a child they will not speak to you if you are trying to bag them
2006-11-30 04:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you r happy with them don't be looking for other woman ...an no it not the end of your freedom have a kid is the best thing i ever did i do all the things with them i took my first girl fishing when she was 6 months old yea i know she couldn't do much but u can still do all the things you wont too
2006-11-30 04:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may possibly be more attractive, however if you're in a monogamous relationship, maybe you should be thinking more of your wife and child rather than what other women think?
It may be the 'end of your freedom' but it was your choice, was it not?
2006-11-30 04:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by jacque_sue89 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women love to see men who are caring and sporting their kids pictures. She actually sees you are a worthy man who can not only speak about responsibilities but also take them!.
2006-11-30 04:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by jinitha p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋