Okay well I broke up with my ex 3 months ago... and I met this other really great guy.... He's so sweet, he calls me babe, sends me kisses and hugs, calls me gorgeous, and plays with my hair n that sort of stuff.... But the problem is I'm too scared to ask him out, because I'm afraid of being rejected... I like him alot though... Advice please =)
2006-11-29 19:56:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him ask you out
2006-11-29 20:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bailey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-29 20:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well ,how long you known this guy?? I have met men who did the same things to me and I still aint with any of them...Some men want to rush relationships only to fail..Dont ask him out,,wait till he asks you out...If he dont and only sweet talks you then he is only after one thing...Gosh,,this is goin around everywhere i go..So many women are being sweet talked and some have said how dumped they got once the man got what they want...Take your time hun...Dont rush...Keep your guard up alittle and if he is really interested in a relationship with you,,then he will ask you out and take it slow to really get to know you...If he tries sex before really knowing you then you stand a chance of never hearing from him again...Gosh,,I really wish men would understand all women want is an honest and true man...God bless you hun
2006-11-29 20:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one he should be asking you out if he is doing all of that. And if he doesn't there are plenty of fish left in the sea. Take your time and don't fall for the okie doke! I'm a man and I know the ropes on running game in my past. You are the most important person in your life and you deserve the best. Don't forget that... egreen3rd
2006-11-29 20:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by egreen3rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring the conversation around to what it is you're looking for and what you'd expect from a relationship. If his ideas and yours match, then you know what to do. Even if he's interested in you and finds you attractive, there's no gusrantee he wants a monogamous relationship; or even wants one with you, he may just want to remain a free man but get some booty on the fly...ask anything, assume nothing!!!
2006-11-29 20:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry bout. I'm sure he feels the same way. Just ask him. Sometimes asking someone out can be the most terrifying thing there is. If you like him go for it.
2006-11-29 20:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by sfgr8one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are two ways. Asking him your self or waiting for him to ask. If you choose the latter, he might be choosing the same.So when no body asks your relationship can come to an end, So, go and ask yourself.
2006-11-29 20:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by rumble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got 2 choices sit and wait and do nothing in the hope that he asks you or put your cards on the table and ask him.
2006-11-29 19:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by bodecia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i replaced into questioning approximately it. returned then shouldnt woman have ruled? we are the onse who created human!" ummm ok then god. i understand your asserting you provide start to human, yet we've the substance for human existence. So in that experience we are equivalent
2016-10-13 10:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like there's more too this if you r afraid of being turned down ...but be sure hes not after sxxxx tell him you wont too go out or be with him an if he wont too he will tell u but after he says yes u tell him hes not going too get in your pants too soon c if hes still there in the mor...
2006-11-29 20:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋