Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

My mom and stepdad have had a rocky 18-year marriage. They are cold and barely talk to one another. Yesterday she discovered he's cheating on her. The catch is, she's American and he's a foreigner, and they live abroad. She loves living there but will have to leave if they split up. At 50 it's not easy for her to just move to the States and be a single mom of four, including 2 dependent teens. She's looking to me for advice...

2006-11-29 18:57:35 · 5 answers · asked by empress83 2 in Marriage & Divorce

normally i was open - minded make love w/guy and no sure i just wan for fun.

2006-11-29 18:53:48 · 10 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 18:51:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but we haven't had sex in almost a year. If you were her, would you be understanding if I slept with someone else only for sex?

2006-11-29 18:50:44 · 3 answers · asked by stryc9 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 18:49:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this lady who has stanky armpits.....and it is rank....but how do I tell her ?Other people has said something about it (not to her) and I feel bad I wanna help but how...???

2006-11-29 18:48:01 · 19 answers · asked by Clarissa Belle 1 in Friends

Last month my grandfather passed away and my grandma went to stay at her sister's while we took care of his things. While going through his closet we found a box filled with envelopes and letters from my grandma's cousin. The letters make it quite evident that grandpa was having an affair with the woman until the day he died, even suggesting that he was going to divorce my grandmother and marry her cousin. My grandmother loved my grandfather very much and now we have a dilemna, should we show grandma the letters or should we just keep it a secret?

2006-11-29 18:47:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really do want tried & true advice. This past YEAR I've encountered seveal men who are well endowed. I have a small mouth. My teeth seem to scrape them sometimes. How do you handle this?

2006-11-29 18:46:32 · 13 answers · asked by kissgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 15 days now. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN

2006-11-29 18:46:30 · 10 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Singles & Dating

If you have ever asked or been asked to marry someone how did it happen, was it a weird one, romantic, cheesey, or so pathetic that it was sweet? I've been asked twice the first was just pathetic. the other I cant tell. At bout 4 am I get a text will you marry me and before I can say anything he was calling to ask. He was working out of state and it was christmas.what so you think?

2006-11-29 18:45:45 · 10 answers · asked by samcamcam 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married since last year and want to have a kid now but my hubby wants after one more year.But I am not happy with this and I have pressure from my family and friends too to have a kid soon.what do I answer them and how do I convince my hubby to agree with me.Is it right if I dont agree to him and be stubborn on my point or should I agree to what he says.I want that both of us should have the same opinion and not a one sided decision and also that our relation remains the same.can someone please help me and give me good suggestions.

2006-11-29 18:44:31 · 13 answers · asked by dreamz a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when a girl bites her lip or licks her lips?
Or the most sexiest thing a girl can do??

2006-11-29 18:41:58 · 18 answers · asked by MISSY 1 in Singles & Dating

works third shift with this girl who, when they are together,,,,(i have been to the bar with him and she has showed up and sat by us,) flirt to the point I have had our friends come up to me and ask what is up with the two of them.

2006-11-29 18:41:30 · 8 answers · asked by RHONDA Y 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 18:39:39 · 4 answers · asked by ckgene 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When 2 girls start making out and doing other stuff..?

2006-11-29 18:39:32 · 21 answers · asked by MISSY 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 18:39:16 · 9 answers · asked by LATHA GOVARTHANAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just have a feeling that he still loves me.even we broke up,i can see it in his eyes and his action,he was very sad and speechles everytime i see him and my friends,we have only a 1 month relationship,but it was full of love we almost talk everyday,but he end it up,he just want to be friend with me that i cant accept bcoz it hurt's.but i think hes just controling to spead his feelings to me.bcoz we cant be bcoz his already married.i know we two have mistakes.he said he developed his feelings so fast to me,thats why he wants to end up before its more deeply.we cant be bcoz were christian,w/ the same religion,and were two are church worker,if we will be together we two will expel to the church.and theres no divorce in philippines.but its hard im suffering and i know he too.he said im still in his heart and if he is not married yet he will marry me.but its too late now we really cant be.someone experience this difficult situations?

2006-11-29 18:39:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when he told that he loved me he said that he loved me as a soul mate and does not want to lose me. and he remembers telling me that but now he does not call me anymore what does that mean?

2006-11-29 18:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by dragonfly_mandy22 1 in Singles & Dating

I have to children a 3 year old and a 8 week old. My husband has been out of work for a month and is about to get a operation. I have been working 50 hours a week to try to get the bills paid. Our kids stay with family, I spend as much time as possible, but if I am home and everyone leaves my daughter says," who is going to stay with me?" she now is not used to me staying with her. My son barley sees me because of course he sleeps. My husband is in pain, is there a way to keep us stronge and together?

2006-11-29 18:37:47 · 4 answers · asked by lizzysmalls4114 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She'll most definetly come to my house. Pray that she doesn't but its most likely to happen cause she's gonna come to town and get drunk and come over to bump ugly's

2006-11-29 18:37:21 · 5 answers · asked by blazablunt4me 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy online for about 6 months now and we've had some very personal conversations. But he's gotten all depressed recently and had kind of a breakdown. I just don't have a lot of patience I guess. Hopefully he'll be OK, but it just affects me too much when he comes on complaining all the time. I feel bad for him, but I don't think I can do a heck of a lot for him, and I have enough problems of my own right now. I think he senses this and is leaving me alone, hopefully.

2006-11-29 18:36:42 · 16 answers · asked by geek_gurrrrl 1 in Friends

do you prefer someone who's polite, and keep their feelings hidden. or someone who's nice sometimes but keeps it real and tells it like it is?

2006-11-29 18:36:15 · 13 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Friends

No that is not my question

This is :
Have u ever felt sooooo **** u wanted to comit suicide?
We all know life isnt suppose to be all perfect but hav u ever felt lyk falling off the edge of the world, n want to never think breathe or remember those times u hated the most?
we all know commiting suicide, wasnt the answer...but


Name Why did u wanted to comit suicide,..n when
(n if u had a reason tht u wanted to stop, wat was the reason)

2006-11-29 18:34:53 · 8 answers · asked by Val 2 in Friends

2006-11-29 18:34:33 · 10 answers · asked by uni_tesfu2008 1 in Friends

I want to know the truth. If you think im ugly, Dont be scared to hurt my feelings. because lately everyone has been letting me know that Im ugly. Im getting used to it, They say my teeth and eyes are my worst features. I almost think I should get work done on them.. I dont know anymore. My boyfriend just dumped me becuase he says i'm just not attractive.
Here are some pictures

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Sorry if I just wasted your time, I just dont think I'll ever find a Guy who will find me attractive, or any friends that dont turn on me..

Just give me your honest opinion please.

2006-11-29 18:33:33 · 37 answers · asked by Kimetra.Smoothers 1 in Singles & Dating

Man, c-mon, This is a site to ask and answer questions. NOT to search for other peoples "Racism-Tendencies" or to get people worked up. GO AWAY!!!!

2006-11-29 18:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by hookiejr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live with 3 other girls, and they never do anything. Our townhouse is always a frickin mess because they never pick up after themselves. Everytime I ask any one of them to do something (mainly pick up after themselves, which is reasonable), they get mad and tell me that I can't tell them what to do. So when I am home, and I don't feel welcome when I'm here, I mainly stay in my room. So now they're accusing me of ignoring them and never wanting to hang out. How do I respond to that?

2006-11-29 18:32:16 · 5 answers · asked by Katie Jo 3 in Friends

Just now, my girl which I have been 'dating' for sometime asked me a question which I am shocked. We were having lunch and a friend of hers join in. We were chatting together and my gf suddenly stop n whisper to her. i saw her nodded her head and walks away. At first I thought she asked her to leave or what cos she likes to be with me alone. I then asked her and she told me she asked her if she wants to have threesome with us (Me and my gf). Surprisingly, she nodded her head. She will arrange with her after our work to get 'together' and asked me if I'm on it as she never tried before. I told her I will give her an answer before 5pm and now is 3.30pm. What should I do? I do hope to join in, but wasn't unsure somehow. Any advise?

2006-11-29 18:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I look for a lot in a man. Good listener, good looking, understanding, faithful, not afraid to say how they feel, strong but still opens the door for you, well-mannered, family oriented, caring, loving, patient, helpful... why can't women find this kind of man? Why does this man not exist?

2006-11-29 18:30:58 · 18 answers · asked by Sauniere 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 18:30:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating