When I married him, I told him I wasn't sure if I did. Now, I'm sure I don't. I don't like the idea of giving up my career for a child I wouldn't even like (I don't like children, period,). Also, the idea of pregnancy and childbirth absolutely revolts me (even though physically, I'm very healthy) He basically said that if he can't have a child that's his own flesh and blood he'd no longer have a purpose in life. He won't even settle for adoption. What makes it harder is that in every other respect, he's sweet, kind, does everything he can for me. Except for this one issue. Apparently, his ego is more important than my reproductive choices. Also, I have depression and I'm on 3 medications for it and he knows this. Please help, I'm at my wit's end. I love him, he's been nothing but kind to me, but he told me that he'd "never back down" on the kids issue.
2006-11-29
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