i am a 27 yr old virgin . and guys pressure me ..
2006-11-29 17:41:58 · 19 answers · asked by n8ive_gurl1979 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should wait.
-NmD!
2006-11-29 17:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when the time is right for YOU.
In the meantime, don't bring up the virgin thing to any guys. Just say "no" if you don't want to do something, and just tell them you're not ready or comfortable about it at this point in any relationship you're in. Whether you're a virgin or not is your business unless you decide to change that status, in which case then may be a good time to bring it up if you want to.
If you tell guys that you're just asking to be pressured. Again, if you're not going to do anything with some guy it isn't his business what you have done or not done in the past.
2006-11-30 01:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait until that wedding night back in the day you could trust people. But now people lie about their sex partners and they lie about their HIV status to get what they want , dont get me wrong its not common but it happens. You lasted this long any guy that pressures you doesnt respect you ... Continue to hold off until you find the one....He's out there.
2006-11-30 01:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes YEs WAIT. I am a born again virgin and I can tell you sex is really meant for married people. I am going to ask my girlfriend to marry me and when we do 'consumate' it is going to mean so much more than just dating pleasure, it is going to mean true love. If we would have had sex beforehand then it would just be another night, and that would suck.
2006-11-30 01:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mr B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha... Yes.. I recommend you to wait...
But if guys pressure you.. just remember the values you hold. And make your decisions from there.
In this case, (Forgive me for putting words in your mouth) "I will say no, guys you have to wait till I get married to either one of you."
Cheers!
2006-11-30 01:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there
not sure if you have gotten any answers to your question but yours is a tough question. i guess it really depends on how you feel towards the person that you are seeing and your values towards pre-marital sex. i think you need to look into yourself and ask why you have never given in to having sex with the guys that you go out and then maybe you just might find the answer that you are looking for.
2006-11-30 01:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by labrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all honesty you should wait till you feel that it is right no matter how long or soon that is from now don't let any one or anything pressure you into doing it or waiting if you don't feel like it.
2006-11-30 01:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes wait! if a guy pressures you he doesn't deserve you - the right guy will respect and love you and he will wait. there is more chance that you will regret NOT waiting.
2006-11-30 01:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont just give it up! yeesh. guys who pressure you are just looking for the status of being able to say they took your virginity. they wouldent love you or appreciate you at all!
2006-11-30 01:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by bamboozled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are waiting for the guy who will be your husband.....I'd encourage u to wait. Wait until you are married. That'll ensure that your marriage will last.
2006-11-30 01:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Nats 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope u should find the right guy and do it before you get too old..why wait?? unless u waiting for marriage. people will say oh wait and thats great. u are missing out on alot. sex is great
2006-11-30 01:44:47 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋