Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

I really need some good advice. I am a 27 yr old female, pretty, smart, own 3 homes, have had a good acting career, volunteer with sick kids, studied to be a doctor, and I have a boyfriend that is 22, never went to college, never understands me, is from another country. He has a terrible temper at times, it gets pretty crazy even. Sometimes I feel like he don't deserve me, but I love him, and I stay with him. I have also gotten to the age where I want kids SO BADLY, that I got on fertility meds from the dr and want a baby, but I don't know that he is the one for me in the future. He even cheated on me twice, and I left him back. I trusted him so much, I borrowed him money, but not anymore. I even opened a gutter business because I saw he was good with gutters. He says he feels I have the control, and that is because I am older and morre sucessful and it makes him feel less like a man. But then he does not appreciate me when I cook or do stuff 4 him. What should I do? I want baby,& him?

2006-11-29 16:55:19 · 14 answers · asked by Tracy L 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up w/ my gf and already a person wants me to her bf. I don't want to be her bf, but i'm afraid that a couple other girls are gonna ask me soon too. Does is make you look bad or stupid or and a**hole if u dump somebody and then like a week l8r you get together w/ some1 else? Also, the person that wants to be my gf is a really good friend, but i don't want a relationship like that. How do i reject her or tell her to stop w/o hurting her?

2006-11-29 16:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by ski racer 2 in Singles & Dating

Of any kind...

2006-11-29 16:55:07 · 18 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have started talking about getting engaged, but he doesn't want to propose until he can "do it right" in his words with a ring. He is working 2 jobs and going to school right now (we're not wanting to actually get married for at least another year and a half) so he is kinda tight on cash, but is always talking about how he wants to get my ring... I really want a princess cut silver/ white gold ring. Where can he find one for a deal?

2006-11-29 16:54:54 · 26 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1 in Weddings

2006-11-29 16:54:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 16:54:44 · 5 answers · asked by Jame$ 1 in Singles & Dating

See there's this girl and i thought i loved her.Thats untill i get threatned by her boyfriend 4 times to back off.Now all i was doing was hugging her and talking to her.On the forth time he calls me and says"Stay away from my girlfriend or it's on!".But i don't get it.His girlfriend told me to call her at 8 o'clock.Thats what caught he off gaurd.What do i do

2006-11-29 16:54:38 · 9 answers · asked by stunner' 1 in Friends

2006-11-29 16:54:31 · 9 answers · asked by Gemini Girl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 16:54:08 · 9 answers · asked by renee r 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 16:53:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want a nice respectful girl....with goals.....where are they????

2006-11-29 16:53:04 · 17 answers · asked by Dr. R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 16:51:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't had any real good friends. I've had some friends but none like my best friend. I've known her since freshman year of high school. She and I would do everything together, but then she went away to college. She has changed a lot. She drinks and she started smoking and whenever I talk to her, she always snaps at me. Should I just end the friendship, or what should I do? I feel like I have nobody to talk to anymore. Thanks for any responses.

2006-11-29 16:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by meitsme 2 in Friends

I contacted a girl I graduated with and went out with her and her best friend. We had a pretty good time, and in the end she said we should definately go out to eat just her and myself. I'm not sure if shes liking me right now, but she is alot of fun and I find myself talking about her alot lately. Should I call her tomorrow and see what shes doing or just let it be and maybe see her before I leave again.

2006-11-29 16:48:28 · 11 answers · asked by Braden M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 16:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My question got removed b4...i hope they didnt think i meant anything....b/c i didnt....not like that anyways..im just bored and want someone to talk to...someone decent plz.

2006-11-29 16:47:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she is truly evil, she threatened to slap me on our wedding day, she cut our cake and served our food before we even got there! We left the wedding reception after 30minutes, she smashed my centerpieces and tore my bouquet apart and threw them in front of my front door! She has my husband wrapped around her finger, and acts like we can't make it w/out her in our lives. I am at a loss, because both of our families dislike each other, but his mother is 10x's worse. How do we make our marriage survive? I know i can't say well she can't be apart of our lives at all, because i tried that, and we both need our families in our lives. But how do I get her to back off? Simply talking to her doesn't cut it. HELP!!!! She lies, makes up stories, name calling you name it. HELP!!

2006-11-29 16:47:22 · 20 answers · asked by justadream 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i got engaged on 09-28-2k6. i'm getting married on 09-01-2k7. (saturday) when is the best time to send out our wedding invitations?

2006-11-29 16:46:59 · 16 answers · asked by miss_mia_girl2002 1 in Weddings

2006-11-29 16:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by Dr. R 1 in Singles & Dating

Im looking for Mariati Binte jumaat, residing in singapore bedok north road. Anyone who knows her?

2006-11-29 16:45:11 · 4 answers · asked by raydalfie 1 in Friends

My Dad and my Step Mom have been together for about 8 years. My Step Mom has always been pretty inside and out, but she has been loosing weight and my friends have been noticing her, and I guess I have been noticing her a little more too. She isn't that much older than we are, and with her improving appearance I really think she is attractive. My Dad doesn't really pay attention to her and I think he's an *** for not noticing the changes in her, but I guess my question is, how do I handle my friends lookin at her and more importantly how do I handle my growing attraction to her? It is getting a little uncomfortable cause I don't want her to know, cause I think it would cause issues between us. HELP!

2006-11-29 16:44:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Been in an intimate sexual relationship for 8 months and never got one gift. Is this a bad sign.

2006-11-29 16:43:25 · 12 answers · asked by exotica 1 in Singles & Dating

If I held you close to me every night, even though we may be apart. If I stared into your eyes until I broke down and cried. If I told you and showed you that you are my everything. If I love your children like I love my own. If I kiss you instead of being mad. If I made love to you without having sex, If we took long showers together as I washed your hair. If I wiped away your tears and held you until you felt better. If I made it home before you, cleaned the house, and made dinner. If I told you how beautiful you are even in the defining moments of the early morning. If I teased you about something we both thought was funny yet you acted like it got you bent. If I knew God created me for you. If I could smell you even though we are hundreds of miles apart. If I sent you voice mails with me singing along to love songs. If every time you walked by a garden of roses, they bloomed. If all our pain and heartache went away when we were together, would you marry me?

2006-11-29 16:43:15 · 23 answers · asked by hookiejr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, as always im in a bind. i really like this guy but i know he doesnt like me cuz he stopped calling me. i mean that gives me reason to believe that he doesnt right? well anyways, this guy started off likeing me, but then stopped calling and hasnt told me straight off that he doesnt like me. do i still have a chance with him or no?

2006-11-29 16:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by lost_in_thought 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 16:42:53 · 21 answers · asked by teresa w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband kisses my 15yo step son on the lips. im not sure if its ok or not. ive never seen him use his tongue but sometimes he places his son on his lap and plays with his hair

2006-11-29 16:40:48 · 34 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Family

Do you find that many, not all, parents are dearly, yet simply, raising their child, yet are not focusing on the fact that they are also raising a future adult. Raising their child with the thought that they are raising someone's elses (in the future), lover, spouse, co-worker, room-mate, neighbor, in-law etc. Raising a future adult who is relatinship savy, financially savy, intimate (tender hearted) savy . . . etc. Have faith, yet concern of this awareness.

2006-11-29 16:39:13 · 5 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that most females show teeth or have eyes glistening when they are giving a genuine snile to someone or something they fancy?

2006-11-29 16:38:52 · 15 answers · asked by bradley k 1 in Singles & Dating

i have posted other questions which i have received answers for but now its serious i made some serious mistakes and now i have lost my wife and kids she went to florida where her parents live and i am in ny. i know i have made mistakes but i am willing to go the distance and pay someone to really help me out to get her back. i will try marriage counseling when she gets back to ny. i have even started seeing a regular counselor now. i just dont want to spend christmas alone and i want to prove that i truly am sorry for the mistakes i have made. when we talk she sometimes says she wants to work this out and she even says she loves me then other times she is so mean and says she doesnt. like i said if anyone can provide me with real help i am willing to pay you. my email is draconixtechnology@yahoo.com or aim s/n is rwb9900

2006-11-29 16:38:31 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 16:37:47 · 10 answers · asked by William T 1 in Marriage & Divorce