I just broke up w/ my gf and already a person wants me to her bf. I don't want to be her bf, but i'm afraid that a couple other girls are gonna ask me soon too. Does is make you look bad or stupid or and a**hole if u dump somebody and then like a week l8r you get together w/ some1 else? Also, the person that wants to be my gf is a really good friend, but i don't want a relationship like that. How do i reject her or tell her to stop w/o hurting her?
2006-11-29 16:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by ski racer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait atleast 2 to 3 weeks is my rule so it doesnt make u seem bad
2006-11-29 16:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? what does schoolwise mean? but if you don't want to why would you say yes??? usually you need to take a little break right after you break up with someone to get completely over them. it's called the rebound. you're rebounding back from your last relationship. and if you get into another too quickly it may seem like your just using that person to get over your ex-gf. if you don't want a relationship with a person you shouldn't lead them on and make them believe you do. if she asks you tell her that you're just not ready for a relationship right now. don't get caught up with her friends by the way. don't feel pressure to ask her out based on the assumption that she wants you to just because her friends said she does. her closest friends probably aren't thinking about what's best for her or you and just want to play matchmaker. good luck.
2006-11-30 01:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by collgegrl11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, its me again
You should wait a couple of weeks. Who knows, you may start liking her again.(wouldn't bother me)
P.S.She's really upset
2006-12-01 00:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by goniners1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER U JUST GOT OUT OF A SERIOUS REALTIONSHIP AND U REALLY DONT WANT TO JUMP IN TO ANOTHER ONE JUST YET IT SHOULD WORK IF NOT GET USE 2 IT
2006-11-30 01:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by sonia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋