okay, as always im in a bind. i really like this guy but i know he doesnt like me cuz he stopped calling me. i mean that gives me reason to believe that he doesnt right? well anyways, this guy started off likeing me, but then stopped calling and hasnt told me straight off that he doesnt like me. do i still have a chance with him or no?
2006-11-29 16:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by lost_in_thought 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
another thing is that everytime i call him, he's busy or he'll call me back and then never does...
2006-11-29 16:50:52 · update #1
Uh...you probably left it a little late. Even if guys like girls, eventually we get tired of waiting and move on. The only way you'll find out though is by asking him.
2006-11-29 16:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by John Doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to say. I think it would depend on the reason that he stopped phoning. Did you maybe do something to upset/anger him? Or does he no longer find you attractive?
It could be other things though too. Maybe he has something personal going on that is taking up his time. Maybe he is confused. Maybe he is unsure of what kind of signals you are sending him. Have you been too available.
If you have been too available that would explain it to a degree. If someone knows that you are always going to be there, no matter when they call/need you, they will somewhat start to treat you like a doormat...they don't ever have to compete for your time because you always have time.
Show him that you are still interested in him. Most of all, to get a straight answer, ask him. I hope this helps.
2006-11-29 16:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen I'm a girl myself but have read many books on relationships and have learned that sometimes when a guy gets too close or is too intimate he tends to back off, however the good news is that most of the time they come back so long as you don't nag them. Just give him time without questioning him and he will probably come around if you say that he did like you.
2006-11-29 17:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by exotica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
If he doesnt like you or wants you then NO. If you keep 'trying' he will take it, but thats not going to be serious. So you better don't expose yourself and try someone else.
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Where r u from? jajaja
2006-11-29 16:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Osk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already lost his chances with you. Live your life, have fun and don't worry about him.
2006-11-29 16:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe..
but if not..don't waste your time..
2006-11-29 16:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2006-11-29 16:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by niki s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋