Of any kind...
2006-11-29 16:55:07 · 18 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ji-ann!! Can you say "emotional blackmail"?? Come on darling, you don't need that!
2006-11-29 17:04:58 · update #1
27 years Yumyum, 27 years... :)
2006-12-01 12:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship I'm in now! 21 years. I married in 1993. The dating part of the relationship in the early years was wonderful at first, then started getting red flags, then things changed for the better, got married and 2-3 years into the marriage started seeing the same red flags. I really think my spouse is bi-polar!
He's a nice guy, but I believe he has some deep seeded problems from growing up and the way he was raised!
2006-11-30 01:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by icuassist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean destructive?
Phisical? Never. DOn't even wait for the answers, Run.
Emotional: If abusing is involved run smoothly. You don't want come backs. If you feel destroyed day by day look for the causes. Sometimes you create them, or you let them happen. If you see yourself innocent close the chapter.
All my friends divorced (yes they even managed to get married even tough imost were abusive). Longest one was 14 years. She filed for court, restriction orders, etc. Sooner the better.
2006-11-30 00:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Curio-ous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 years....recently trying to get out of it. I don't know why we do sh@t like this, take all the lies and empty promises that things will change! I don't know why!! But for the others that say they just don't deal with it, they haven't been in a really bad situation....cause I never thought I would fall for bs like I have. No more!! And I feel GOOD!
2006-11-30 01:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by DREAMY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you consider destructive....stayed in a marriage for a year that I knew was not going to last_
2006-11-30 00:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
0 time. You should never tolerate destructive behavior.
2006-11-30 00:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I stayed for almost a year, thinking it would get better and that he would change... boy was I wrong, and wasted WAY too much time. DON'T do it, they won't change.
2006-11-30 00:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
11 yrs. And he left when he was ready, Now I feel sorry for the new girl.
2006-11-30 00:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 day after it started happening. No one needs that.
Tess :)
2006-11-30 00:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Tess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 years of suffering and being a wussy and settling for unworkability -
*i am done b i t c h slappin myself over that one - it happened!*
2006-11-30 08:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋