Is it true that a woman can....????

Question

It's very typical that men usually have/give lustful looks or drool over women....But not vice versa???

Today, I was at the gym working out, there was this girl kept looking at my crotch & wink at me. She had tried to flirt w/ me before, but I avoided her & told her that I already have a gf, but she kept coming on stronger & stronger...it's not that she can physically do anything to me. But just the way she stared at my body, made me feel uncomtable. I don't know if she's aroused or something but I think she wet her spendex & enlarged her "down-there" when she looked at me. I've tried to come to the gym at different time schedule, but somehow she seems to know when I arrive. I told her to stop staring at me that way, but she told me "I will have to give it to her eventually", I don't want to cancel my gym membership because of this. I don't want to tell my gf about this because I don't want any drama.

But is it true that women can be "physiologically aroused" like men do?

Answer 1

Yeah, it's true that women can be aroused just as strongly as men can. If I was in this situation, I would say, "If you do not leave me alone, I am telling the gym staff that what you are doing is sexual harrassment. If they catch you doing what you are doing, they will ban and possibly report you."

Either way, that should settle it. You'll either scare her away or have to tell the gym employess, right?

If you feel like like can handle this on your own, though....and I really think that you can...you should probably tell the gym employees. They already may have some of this on the security camera, which should work in your favor.

If male ego is an issue here....many men feel embarrassed about it when a woman harasses them sexually....I understand that...This is not the time for ego, however. This woman may need professional help; and in the long run, you would actually be protecting both her and society by letting people know that she is acting inappropriately.

Answer 2

Heh. Yes, women can get quite arroused, mostly the difference is women have to be mentally in the right place first, where guys ... well you know. If you were asking about the "enlargement", some women may have noticeable growth when arroused, specifically their clits. It can vary quite a bit. Most women get damp when arroused, but its not universal.

Maybe talking with the gym might help things, kind of a tough spot.

Answer 3

yes..we definitely do get aroused. this woman is surely desperate if she keeps on hitting on you after the fact she knows you have a girlfriend. maybe, she feels that your any easy target and you'll eventually give in. she likes seducing vulnerable men and your one of them. if your membership will end pretty soon than stick with it or go to another gym. Or you can stop going for a while and maybe she will stop coming at the times you go. i know you don't want to cancel your membership, but if these options don't work then you have to. It sucks that you gotta cancel it for a horny b*** but you need a peace of mind!!!! good luck!!!!

Answer 4

You like to tell the public how hot you are where women are concerned, don't you. You aren't the only person that some skank couldn't leave alone, but the rest of us just take these things for granted. Men like women and women like men. No big deal, except for you - you seem to find it odd. Doesn't happen all that much for you I guess. But what do you want from us? Should we lie and pretend to be impressed, while we secretly snicker a bit?

Answer 5

Yes it is true.. Not in most cases but it can happen. Our thoughts and sight does effect how aroused we can get. Anyway, don't cancel your membership. Just ignore her as much as possible. Or if she is that bad get to the gym at 5 am. Hah! Or tell her you are not interested and get her off your back! Good Luck

Answer 6

Yes but we don't like to be so obvious about it.
It makes us look desperate which is what this girl has done to herself. It's a turn off.

I feel sorry for you. It sounds like this girl needs a doctor. Not a guy.

On top of that, she is probably carrying around more than just a MENTAL disease. You know that atleast a FEW guys have taken advantage of that sure thing.

You know, they had to have been just as desperate for attention as SHE is. Not a pretty picture. Yuck.

You could tell the manager about it. She can be thrown out for sexual misconduct or harrassment just like a guy can.

Report her.

Answer 7

Are you sure she was looking at that? Sometimes when people move their hands you watch their hands. Have you ever noticed that if a guy has his hand down there or by there you might look at his hand & not that? Like watching baseball players. They adjust themselves & you can't help but notice what their hands are doing. AND you are not looking at THAT but just noticing what their hand(s) are doing.
I am a women & I don't look at men lustfully. I can notice & appreciate that some men are charismatic, but that's it.
Do you think it could seem hypocritical of someone talking about someone looking at them down there (if that's what they did) if they in turn did the same thing?
Was she unattractive?.... Don't look anywhere near me! HaHaHa
Not you, but I actually heard a guy going off on how he hated that unattractive girls would even dare think that they could talk to him. Yikes, huh? :-/

Answer 8

yes it's true! and no don't do her what u could do is take another woman into the Gym with u to see if that works, not ur gf but make D@M sure shes really hot, this will let her know I'm not into u and this r the kind of woman i like, oh and try not to have all of that where she can see what ur got down there!

Answer 9

If she continues then say something to the staff. And I would most definitely tell your g/f and maybe have her go to the gym with you or let her know you told the staff about this. If you don't tell her, she *will* find out...trust me, she'd rather hear it from you than from someone else.

Kudos to you for wanting to remain faithful, it's nice to know there are a few NICe guys out there...

Answer 10

short answer: 3 letters, definite long answer: women are emotional and assorted of them could relatively such as you as you're, regardless of the undeniable fact that, slowly, as quickly as your allure is getting used to, that's time for the money to maintain the relation. otherwise, breakup and if married divorce and nil.5 plus toddler help and bounce on a wealthy guy if the prospect is there (which many times isn't whilst they are mid or previous elderly and finally end up depressed). that's what I frequently see and hear approximately in the time of my existence.