when my gurlfriend calls i dont know what to talk about with her?

Question

please help because shes always getting mad at me because i dont know what to say to her on da phone

Answer 1

Ask her questions..........Get to know what she is about and what she likes to do.......Asking questions means you are taking interest in her life.

You probably are but you dont know how to voice this interest....

Answer 2

Miguel, this is a standard problem with men and women. Women are more verbal, and generally use about four times as many words in a day as men.
There are two things that you can do. I suggest using both ideas.

First, learn to be an active listener - listen to what she is saying and let her know you are listening by saying "I see", "then what happened", "that's really interesting, tell me more" - but in your own words. Respond verbally letting her know you are listening and interested in what she is saying.
The second, is to have a game plan for what to say. During your day think about what you are seeing, what is happening that she may be interested in. Did you see something interesting on the news, on the street, in the paper. Did someone say something interesting. If you are thinking about it ahead of time and have a few things to talk to her about lined up already you'll be less on the spot when she calls you.
Hope this helps.

Answer 3

I know that we should give our guys a break, but honestly we can't wait to hear from you. I know it is really a pain for guys to soothe women but it is true. She wants reassurance and the more you share your day with her the more she will feel confident. Once her confidence is built and she know that you love her she won't feel that need to demand attention. She will feel safe in your love. You have to try and give her a chance if not you may be throwing away the best thing you ever had. For what a few minutes talking to her on the phone?

Answer 4

Some people aren't good on the phone. You can ask alot of quesions or pick a topic and run with it.

Answer 5

If you have nothing to talk about then it doesn't sound like there's anything there. If you were honestly interested in her then you would know what to say.

Answer 6

You need to listen to her, find out what shes interested in and do a little research.

Answer 7

let me have a try lol i m not including the gurl's reply..
"hi! how are you dear?"
"ya but i m not fine...i m in love wid you dear, can't live without you..."
if its silence- "i can hear your heart beating for me darling"
be caring..
"its no fun without you, you know.."
"i can wait for you for my whole life...but i'll die without you before that"
make it romantic man! Best of luck...

Answer 8

say whatever you did that day
and take a note
some some joke and make her entertained

Answer 9

gossip about all your other mutual friends

Answer 10

start off by askin how her day was?