Which do you prefer???

Question

do you prefer someone who's polite, and keep their feelings hidden. or someone who's nice sometimes but keeps it real and tells it like it is?

i personally prefer someone who's real. i consider myself a person who's real so sometimes I don't know if I offend people that are polite but keep their feelings hidden. they never tell me how they feel. so i thought by asking this i could see which one majority of people prefer and see if me being too "real" is bad.

Answer 1

Some one who is a real is more exiting because you will never know what will happen when you are around them. The real people will deal with everything there and then and will not hold anything nor do they agree on everything with everyone.
The fake people who keep all inside you never know what is going on with them and their life cause they hold emotions and opinions or better yet they always agree with everything. They rather go with the flow just so they do not cause any waves. Ah! but who wants to follow when you can lead.

Answer 2

Someone who's nice sometimes but keeps it real and tells it like it is?

If you can't talk honestly to each other how are you suppose to grow in the relationship? I have 2 men friends that tell me like it sometimes it is hard to take. There is a saying though if it stings you better look where. You can't do that without honesty.

Answer 3

I certainly wouldn't want someone to keep everything inside. That's asking for trouble. Just because they're polite, doesn't mean they're the nicest person. Mass murderers were polite, also. I'd want someone to be more open with me.

Answer 4

i prefer someone who's nice sometimes but keeps it real and tells it like is...how about u?

Answer 5

Bonita, I would prefer the frank chap.
But when yesterday I had answered your other question (about the friend wanting to 'rape' you,) you did not like it & responded in a personal message to me brusquely. My reply to U did no go through since Ur ID is not verified.Sorry

Answer 6

personally i like a blunt person that will tell me what is going on if i want to hear it or not so i would say the second one.nice question

Answer 7

I like the real thing cos at least i know what he is thinking...!

Answer 8

Gotta love honesty! It shows confidence. But they have to have some good judgment and know when to be completely candid and when to, well, keep your mouth shut. ; )

Answer 9

OBVIO

Keeps it real...that's a true friend

but it also depends on how close you are to one another

Answer 10

the one who tells it like it is