Just now, my girl which I have been 'dating' for sometime asked me a question which I am shocked. We were having lunch and a friend of hers join in. We were chatting together and my gf suddenly stop n whisper to her. i saw her nodded her head and walks away. At first I thought she asked her to leave or what cos she likes to be with me alone. I then asked her and she told me she asked her if she wants to have threesome with us (Me and my gf). Surprisingly, she nodded her head. She will arrange with her after our work to get 'together' and asked me if I'm on it as she never tried before. I told her I will give her an answer before 5pm and now is 3.30pm. What should I do? I do hope to join in, but wasn't unsure somehow. Any advise?
2006-11-29 18:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only the strongest relationships can survive these situations. Someone will feel guilty later, or jealous, or they will use it against each other. Don't do it unless you can tell the difference between love and just sex.
2006-11-29 18:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dud I'd be all over it! So many men out there try to get their SO to try this and get denied or a pot over the head. Since this is a girlfriend and not a wife you are not doing anything to hurt or go against a marriage vow. Trying not to make you feel guilty here.
It will definately go down as an learning experience and you will have that memory for a long time. The missus is against that type of thing. I don't care for it involving another man but I'm all for a little girl on girl action. Every man's dream dude.
Now, since this is something you HAVE to think about I say don't do it. Most guys would have left the tabe in less than one second heading for the door then the bedroom.
My next words would have been: Check please!
Enjoy your holidays.
2006-11-30 02:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Belize69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all of you want to do it than no harm done. Go ahead.
Do you join in? Do they want you to join in or just watch? In my opinion it's not a threesome unless you do join in. BUT, make sure the ground rules and boundries are discussed first. What is okay to do with the other woman and what isn't. Your girlfriend may say you can do anything. She may say everything but intercourse with her friend is okay. Her friend might feel the same. She may say that everything is good, or everything but this or that is okay. You have to decide this up front.
In short, just make sure it's clear between all of you what is okay to do and what isn't.
As long as you lay down the rules and boundries beforehand, and you stick to them, you will have a great time with no issues. And when you have no issues you have repeat performances. ;-)
2006-11-30 08:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if it's something that you would like to do, and it sounds like it is, then you should go for it! Make the most of the situation, especially since you never know when the opportunity might arise again :) Enjoy!
p.s. Don't worry about anything, and just have fun with it--relax!
2006-11-30 02:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Katie Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and do it. Your gf told you so. I hope you really know your gf. if your girl is kind of horny thing why not go and do it. But if your girl is like your angel, better not coz maybe hes just trying to try if you will never cheat 0n her.
2006-11-30 02:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by arish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really entirely up to you and your morals.
Would this follow with your ethics? Would you regret this later? Would you feel more shallow? Do you mind sharing your girlfriend to someone else and how do you know this won't lead to something else?
2006-11-30 02:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Chant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it man, you dont get a chance like that every day
2006-11-30 03:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i join in. I think it will be fun
2006-11-30 03:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.......just be careful she doesn't end up with your girl. Three is a crowd!
2006-11-30 02:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by Fluff C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What about a 4some??? Count me in! :-)
2006-11-30 03:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋