Ive Known this girl for a few years now, but we just started dated 3 weeks ago, When were together I feel like im in heaven, I constantly smile, I enjoy her, shes so wonderful!! But when Im not with her, i cant seem to stop thinking about her with another man. We've talked about trusting and cheating before, but because of my past relationships I am unsure. I will not leave her, I care for her, and she cares about me. But i cant go on thinking she will play me. I dont ever even consider talking to other women anymore. But sometimes I feel i should, so that it ever happens I can say I was right. What do you think i should do? PLEASE HELP
2006-11-29 20:10:14 · 6 answers · asked by Bme C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's a defeatist attitude. It's understandable that you have trust issues. but you have to get over the past relationships and move on in order to have a successful relationship. If she hasn't done anything to cause you to believe she has cheated then don't punish her for past gf's. The same goes for females w/ these problems.
2006-11-29 20:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love without trust is no love at all! Why would u wanna talk to other women? To make her jealous or to get back to what your ex did to u? U said that she's the best thing that could ever happen to u...so just enjoy the ride and learn to trust her!
2006-11-30 04:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sportivo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just show signs of a typical person who has been played before even girls think this way and it can destroy a relationship try to keep your thoughts to your self chances are she is only interested in you thats why she is with you if she burnz you then you need o take a back seat for a while and look at the type of girls your going out with but give this girl a chance dont burn your bridges before it starts
2006-11-30 04:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem but towards men, well just hang in there and do things as a couple to help boost your self esteem about your relationship, worked for me. now i'm married for 4 years and have 2 beautiful children. its a learning process, just stick with it. good luck
2006-11-30 04:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by andrewslovelywife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is find out how she really feels about you. because communication is what makes all relationships work. get to know each other and maybe that will help you build a relationship. tell her things about you and gain her trust and she will tell you about herself when she feels conferable
2006-11-30 05:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the girl feel that she can really trust you even if she sees you talking to other girls. be open to her anytime so that she wouldn't have this idea of you playing to her. don't be afraid..really..
2006-11-30 04:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by glee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋