The problem is she always brings religion in our relationship saying this cant last long.Right now i'm in canda for study purpose and 19 yrs old. Does the religion matters in the relationship when all are one?
2006-11-29 19:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by Element 115 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmm..now i am gonna say a few practical things whc might pinch u..but thts reality..in a country like ours, where religion and faith has a big role to play, its pretty obvious tht religion DOES matter.now, thr r two options whc u can opt for: either u dont care abt the society and get married OR u compromise with the social norms and forget her.Now, the former is an extreme step to take and u hav to be sure that u will b able to carry out/maintain your relationship after takin such a step.as some1 pointed out earlier, that its not acceptable for a mulsim woman to marry a man of another religion, i dont know abt islam, so i dont know that is actually true, now, if that is true, then u its a problem whc u and ur gf hav to face...and most importantly, ur gf herself is sayin tht the relationship has no future..so i guess she is in no way interested to go against the norms and her religion....or tht ur gf is being practical...so i guess u hav to realise tht she will not go against her religion even if u want to go against the norms...
and for god sake..u r just 19 and studying..u hav a long time b4 u get married..think of ur studies more than ur gf..chill..n njoy..if it has to happen, it wil happen..
.but one thing is sure..u will hav a lot of difficulties if u go for a relationship lik this, atleast in india..also i dont find the relationship so strong from ur gf's side tht u can face the problms tht come on the way in ur relationship...but if both of u really love each other..dont care abt others..
2006-11-29 20:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by raj_genius_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, actually it does. I am in this kind of relationship right now. I am christian and my girl friend is a muslim. we have been together for more than 6 years. But as time goes by the issue of marriage is coming and it will only be done after one of us is converted to the other religion. which is very difficult for both of us. We love each other very much though we can't get married. So this kind of complication occurs.
As your friend says it may not lasts long. Even if it lasts longer as it is in our case there is a high probablity of breaking up.
We don't exactly know what to do now. we are confused....
Therefore, I suggest not to get in this kind of relationship. It would be better to avoid it as early as possible. when you took it longer you will find it difficult to get out from it.
Accept your friend's opinion.PLEASE!!!!!!
2006-11-29 20:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case it is going to be a big issue.
"Does the religion matters in the relationship when all are one"? that's what you are saying.,
"she always brings religion in our relationship saying this cant last long", this is the issue with her and she is right.
I think she wants you to covert.
Stay focused on the study, carrier and other activities. 19 is very young, there is time for every thing, so take it in strides.
2006-11-29 23:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta be really open-minded in issues concering religion. If both you and ure gf think alike then its best for your relationship. In your case ure gf is already considering the barriers. You should speak to her about the way u feel. And you have to prepare yourself to face anything that comes along your way... Anyway all the best!
2006-11-29 20:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
music is a contemporary from God. Why are there numerous Muslim singers?? if music replaced into *****? Yusuf Islam (Cat Stephens), interior of sight Deen, 786, Dawud Wharnsby...this checklist is going on and on. Um, do you examine? or watch television? None of those issues is considered *****, yet there are books accessible that are undesirable, and tv classes that are undesirable...yet no person is going around asserting DON"T examine! Books are *****!!! There are people who will continuously misguide others to maintain them oppressed. human beings are corrupt. the assorted hadith are corrupt. the assorted scholors are corrupt. My suggestion to you: do by no skill take all of us's be conscious for it. learn it your self, pray approximately it, then make your guy or woman conclusions. Btw, no longer ALL scholors agree that music is *****. In Islam, whilst they scholors can no longer agree on a controversy, we are instructed to apply our user-friendly experience and do what we experience terrific. And, Allah is conscious each thing.
2016-10-13 10:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a child grew with Hindu family If he has to pass his life with African Adivasi how he will feel.He can pass the life but cannot enjoy life.Every society has their own developed customs and we are quite familair to pass our time in between them.They are deeprooted in our blood. Strangers only can be accomodated. A muslim girl though have same blood and other parts of the body. She can enjoy bodily pleasures that is sex... but will find difficult to enjoy even jokes of unknown langauage.There are societies enjoying sex with dogs, *****, horses, lesbians, homosexuals and even with artificial organs. But that is not whole life. A man not consumimg garlic hates to sit with the person consuming garlic because smell is always coming out of the person.Even we are accustomed to our wives smell and feel bad smell of other woman, may be extraordinarily beautiful and young. Thats why intercastes should be avoided if possible. Broadmind to that adjustment level are seldom to find.
2006-11-29 20:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes the religion plays a major role in this...I have studied the muslim faith...A muslim woman can not marry a man who is not a muslim..A muslim man can marry any woman of any faith but then she has to convert..The Muslim religion is very strict..So, unless you are Muslim (born Muslim) she can not have a relationship with you...Is what they believe...God bless you
2006-11-29 19:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man believe it or not it..it does matter...why? I dont know. Yes when you are dating a person from different religion especially in India....relationship is full of barriers...yes I agree with you bottom line is we are all one- human beings, the path you choose is not impossible....but full of barriers........so good luck to you.....my best wishes with you
2006-11-30 07:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by billu_bhai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man...if you're not thinking of converting to muslim. Get out of the relationship NOW!
2006-11-29 20:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sportivo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
IF you really LOVE her change your religion and become a muslim
Sorry if I hurt anyone's feeling...
2006-11-29 21:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋