I'm engaged in a sexual fling with a married man. We had an impromptu encounter today and I suggested we have sex versus just oral. We've had sex before and we always used a condom. He refused to have unprotected sex even after I said it wasn't a problem.
Is he just being cautious or does he think I have a disease?
2006-11-29 22:54:40 · 20 answers · asked by buffybeast 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't want you getting pregnant... He doesn't know if you are clean... He might enjoy the de-sensitivity of using a condom to help him last longer... Respect him his choice and give him head!!! And carry some condoms in future... :D
2006-11-29 22:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can NOT be serious?? 4Real?! Ok...1st things 1st---Although he is NOT doing this because he is a model grown up but You don't realize how lucky you are; apparently. First of all; most men will NOT wear condoms and here you are you poor little neglected girl you; you're with a guy that wont NOT wear one. OK.. 2 instant thoughts come 2 mind when you say your b/f has never had unprotected sex w/ you ..Are you on birth control? If you arent on BC; maybe your married(NOT2 you)boyfriend does NOT want 2 get you pregnant. Even if you tell your married(NOT2you)boyfriend that you are already on birth control; he is probably NOT going 2 take your word 4 it. So whether he thinks you have a disease or not is besides the point; who would want 2 risk getting a disease and spreading it 2 their innocent spouse ==Except 4 You.
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2006-11-30 00:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just wants to be safe. Just because you are on the pill doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. There's always a chance. If you drink too much orange juice, take too much vitamin c, don't take your pill the same time every day, take antibiotics, or many other things can alter the balance and make your birth control not work. It's not 100% ever. My aunt actually had a child while on birth control and never missed a dose and watched out for all those things I stated. It can happen. He's just being safe than sorry.
2016-05-23 04:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you need to leave that married man alone. Secondly, he wants a condom so he doesn't run the risk of you giving him a disease to take home to his WIFE. Thirdly, he does not want you to get pregnant. Be somewhat smart if you want to still be with that man and use a condom. Also realize he will never leave his wife for you.
2006-11-29 23:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, okay, it is obvious to me that neither of you are responsible. He is a married man for crying out loud.
USE A CONDOM.
He probably doesn't want to be trapped into a relationship that he doesn't want by a pregnant chick. Who could blame him? Except, of course his wife... when the support papers arrive.
2006-11-29 22:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jade 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should feel flattered that he cares enough about you and your health to insist on it...don't be a skank...
i am also thinking maybe he doesn't want to give YOU something HE may have.
and if you don't know him that well why are you opening your mouth and legs to him...get some dignity!!
and he is married...OMG get therapy now!! or ask to be paid for your services...it appears from what you say here that all you are is a FREE hooker!
2006-11-29 22:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by never2pink 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cautions
2006-11-29 22:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um...condoms aren't for diseases there so you don't have a kid when you don't want one. O and personally i think you should get rid of this man..he's married
2006-11-29 22:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Got_a_question? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah he protecting himself especially he married who not trying to get caught up if he is lol boy you got him plus we got to think about it a fling or divorce court paying all that man trojan will be my best friend i wont leave home with out it ...
2006-11-29 23:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by KANEBRO2DANITE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. He may have more than you on the side and maybe he has at least enough good sense not to share it.
2006-11-29 23:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋