I do not understand. I am a very kind, caring gentle compassionate, male. Yet women never seem interested in me unless they are divorced with children and need money!I am ok looking . What do women really want?Please do not reply with every women is different. I have not found that.
2006-11-29 23:05:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they want to freakin bother me by smiling and distracting me from trying to figure out more about the universe. one in particular right now. i found heaven with myself- so they want to tromp in and start chaos...that's why you have to tell them, either marry me, or get the hell away- but be nice about it. it's the whole dog and pony show and i'm sick of it. they don't know what they want!
2006-11-29 23:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lawrence Boyer,edinboro univ, pa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think women want drama. Nice men are boring. Women want to exersize their emotions. Crying and misery is as neccessary to them as happines and joy. They like a challenge. They think they can tame the wild man. The good men who do not need taming aren't worth bothering with.
They will pasionately deny it, but it is true.
Just look at the losers the women go for.
Have you noticed how many women are tattooing and piercing themselves.
Do they do this to attract nice normal prospective husbands?
Tattos and piercings only cheapen the women who get them.
It does however increase their odds of attracting the type of scummy guys who would give them the termoil their hearts are longing for.
Why else do you think women love soap operas? It's the emotional termoil.
Unfortunately, when things don't go as well as the women had hoped, it's time for a divorce.
Maybe she'll settle for a stable nice guy after the first or second marriage.
As for the stable nice guy, If you want to get married be prepaired to marry a divorcee and get ready to raise that other guys kids.
Cinical but true. Life is not fair. Nice guys finish last. If they finish at all.
2006-12-01 14:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Very interesting. You must nurture other talents apart from generosity and kindness. Take a break from the ladies for a bit, watch repeats of Trinny and Susannah what not to wear, get a few battle scars and stories from doing manly brave and possibly stupid things. Get fit. Get anecdotes. Then re-launch the fab new you and pull anyione you want!
P.S. No nostril hair poking out. It's wrong.
2006-11-29 23:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by MI5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well initially I think women are attracted to that certain x-factor, which in my opinion is having confidence in yourself, being a relaxed and laid back person, having passions in life and obviously the ability to make a women laugh and feel relaxed, but also having a soft sensitive side that you might hide away. Basically women don't go for nice, safe guys (maybe this is you as divorced women would be more attracted to safe guys) but ones that could keep you guessing and that stand out in the crowd and that are strong within themselves.
2006-11-29 23:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by s_m_i_l_e_24 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can of worms mate, can of worms!
What do women want? And I'm not allowed to say every women is different? Hmmmm...
Well there was a time when i wanted the bad boy, the rough 'un, the treat 'em mean types.... but you grow out of it and realise that the good guy is the way to go.
Hence why these women find you once they're divorced with kids. It's not because they want your money, it's because they've finally realised that they should have been with someone like you in the first place!
Hope that helps!
xxx
2006-11-29 23:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Fay 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
most women i now are single with children a bloke that will stick around would be a good start depending on how old u are ur not going to meat anyone with out any dependent children and the kids will always come first most men dont like to come second to somebody elses kids think ur prob is with the kids not the money
2006-11-29 23:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe its time for a change, looks have a lot to do with it, in how you attract a girl, look at were you are going to meet girls and change you location, and make a habit to ask 2 or 3 girls for there number, when you go out, the more options you have the more choice to find want your looking for, you wouldn't buy the first car on the lot or would you? Good luck. I hope one day you'll find your soul mate.
2006-11-29 23:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you think because youre kind,caring etc they should go for you over someone else?thats like saying 2 good looking women one blonde one brunette same good qualities, you pick the brunette why not the blonde? attraction be it physical or mental .all women are different ,they look for different things like you do.be confident ,dont be a yes dear no dear, women like a bit of back bone.as for the women after money show them the door you can do better.
2006-11-29 23:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by smiler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women say they want a nice caring guy like you, but women fall for losers and bad boys. I am a nice guy too and i've been there before, women think your wonderful,sweet,caring,etc,,, but they can't seem to stop choosing morons and then call you to ask for advice.
Sorry to tell you that if you are 25 or older then most of the available women will be divorced,have kids, and much baggage, so your best bet is to just keep being yourself and to wait, and remember sometimes baggage isn't bad if its manageable to you and to her. good luck dude.
2006-11-29 23:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by godzilla99s 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
how old are you??
women want a man who does not assume that just because they have kids that they are looking for someone to give them money...first of all!
secondly...if you are honest, outgoing, have a sense of humor, are compassionate, forgiving, sexy, faithful, and fun to be around...that's a good start.
BE the person you want to attract and let her find YOU! in the meantime, don't assume that all a woman wants you for is money.
(PS i am not a single mom and never have been...but your question made me feel the need to address that particular point)
2006-11-29 23:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by never2pink 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
women are selfish and self centred creatures who unsure what they want themselves. Yeah, every now and again you get a geniune one but they are really hard to spot, however the same could be said of men.
Its hard to give you advice on this question because I think i am quite a nice lass, however I tend to go for bad boys! lol hope this helps xxx
2006-11-29 23:18:03 · answer #11 · answered by SARA H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋