well im 25 yrs old and still a virgin, i had a bad experience with someone in my teens and it has more or less riuned my life ( i wasnt raped tough)!! im a pretty good lookin girl i never have an actual problem attracing men and have been and played a little with with many fellas but when thing start to get intamate i just freak out . i am also a bot shy bout my body coz im neither fat nor skinny..now i am panaicing coz ill end up on my own like really what man is going to like a girl like me or even have de patience for me!!
2006-11-29 22:55:06 · 11 answers · asked by simply B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no worries. maybe you need a bit more socialization.
2006-11-29 23:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your putting too much pressure on yourself.
This bad experience that you had when you were a teenager obviously, sub-consciously, has a major impact on your life. You need to relax more when getting intimate with a bloke, and let's face it, you are every bloke's fantasy being a 25 year old virgin.
Why are you shy about your body when you say that you are not fat or skinny? Seems like you lack some self confidence in yourself and you need your mates to rally around you and support you more. This will boost your confidence no end.
About you ending up on your own, I truly doubt this as I know and have seen some seriously ugly cliniclally obese women with blokes and you are not even fat and your a pretty good looking girl, so there is more than hope for you yet.
What do you mean by 'You have played a little with many fellas?' Have you done Oral?
If you fancy talking about this further, email me with your real email address and I will try and help you out.
2006-11-29 23:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really good question.
I split with my g/f last night. We never slept together because of me. She seemed patient and was really sensitive to me. This morning she texts me saying she was sleeping with another bloke who wasn't afraid to get his d**k wet. She seemed a really genuine girl. So I kind of know where you're coming from.
I'm 22 and if I met someone as nice as her then I don't know how I could trust them.
Most blokes will not have the patience for you. You just have to hope that you meet the right one cos there are genuine blokes out there. Same with me - I have to hope that I meet the right girl, but it doesn't seem as though it's going to happen at the mo.
Never done this before but it's teddyrank@yahoo.co.uk if you did wanna chat. This is not my usual email address - just one that I use for sending discreet messages like this one Maybe we could help each other by email. Take care.
2006-11-30 01:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by teddyrank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl listen you dont need to worry
when your ready thats the thime to move on if you worried about history then maybe counseling is the answer.
what ever your body shape or form if the guy loves you for real he aint gonna be picking at your body at that stage cos you are not gonna let him near till you know him.
good luck
2006-11-29 23:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be shy about your body we all have one and nothing we can do will sway us from our self image. but not all men are impatient. most are but there are some who will wait for you when your ready. you seem like a nice honest girl and i am a manwhore but even i wouldnt want to take your virginity, that special thing belongs to somebody who will wait and not be pushy and respects you above everything else.
2006-11-29 23:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys love a girl like u 25 year old virgin
2006-11-29 22:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by sonoftazont 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you worry to much; we all get hurt one way' or another.it;s rather int resting' what you say about your body. i never heard someone say that ; about them self's. just be live in you self for once.ha what a wonder full age you are. cheer up; the wright man will come along.when you least expect.
2006-11-29 23:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First heal yourself then worry about find the right Guy.
k1
2006-12-01 00:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kenneth G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself,you will attract a real man.
2006-11-29 23:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r still so young, just open up and find out a guy who u ll like .
2006-11-29 22:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just become a nun, I'm sure the parish priest will give you one if you ask nicely.
2006-11-30 23:55:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋