Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

I'm a 20-something year old unhappily married mom of 3 great kids ages 5, 3, and 2.. Lately I've found myself bored with my eveyday life and feel like I need more. (More than just raising my children, taking care of an ungrateful spouse and busting my a$$ at work) The only satisfaction I have now is with my children and my job. Sometimes (today for example) I dont want to come home from work. I dont drink, so I dont go to bars or anything like that, I dont have any friends to hang out with because my life revolves solely around my family. It seems that the only time I have to myself is the 25 minute drive on my way to and from work, and the 30 minutes before going to bed at night and engaging in the same ol redundant routine ALL OVER AGAIN. It's so hard to talk to my 'husband' about it because he doesnt actively listen and it will just turn into an argument. I'm done arguing. Can anyone offer any USEFUL advice?

2006-11-27 08:56:21 · 16 answers · asked by TN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been getting serious lately. Talking about moving out and working on getting our careers. His mother used to let me spend the night all the time, I was there alot. I felt more comfortable there. Then one day his mom decides, she doesnt want me over anymore unless its a weekend. I came the the conclusion that she is upset/jealous, and thinks im taking her son away, when technically you can say i might be, But whether or not its me, Some girl will one day. Shes said some disrespectful things and Im almost positive she doesnt want us to be together. They got into an argument lastnight over it, and i dont think theyve spoken yet. Im so confused on what i should do, She wants us to see less of each other, probably so that it bothers us into a possible breakup. What should I do?

2006-11-27 08:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by idontevenknow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

girl looks at you all the time,but then when you look at her she looks away real fast and you try to talk to her she doesn't say much and talks real low with her head down sometimes what is that?

2006-11-27 08:55:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I be scared to have sex with my my b-f for only 1 month. I don't want to have sex with him now I want to wait til later on in our relationship but, I mean I want to but I a scared. Do I have anything to be scared of. Why not??

2006-11-27 08:55:33 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am on a Mom's Board and we are all exchanging X-Mas cards. Well one lady lives in the UK, and she hasn't been on for me to ask her. So I was wondering if anyone knew how many stamps it would take to send an X-Mas card to the UK, or even if I can.

2006-11-27 08:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by Rachel A 1 in Friends

I think they should. It wasnt working out with them and k-Fed was being a jerk and not taking care of the kids.

2006-11-27 08:55:17 · 7 answers · asked by Onetreehillloverrr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just just came out of this relationship hurting really bad.I had to get real honest with myself here. What is my problem. The man hurt me to the core. I say to myself is he hurting the way I am. I think not. I reflect back and think about the pain I was in before the relationship ended. Well That part of man that a woman enjoys that part that gives her pleasure. Well Thats what I am going to miss. Thats all. sometime a woman feels as if the man she were in the relationship with is the only man on gods green earth that can make her feel good. Wrong, Wrong. That is how I feel. At times letting go could be real hard. But in reality it is real simple. All I had to do were think, think back on how bad this man made me feel. And most of the times not good. Its about getting real honest with myself. and move on. I feel that if a man cheat. hewill always be that way, even if the woman forgives him.

2006-11-27 08:54:37 · 17 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Singles & Dating

I go out with this boy right know, we have a lot in common and everything is going great. Then whats the problem u ask....since he moved away (not to far from here) and at his new school a lot of girls like him and my friend thinks his cheating...wat should i do??

2006-11-27 08:54:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cockpit then my wife, how can I make it smaller?

2006-11-27 08:53:23 · 6 answers · asked by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I chose not to attend the funeral of a friend of mine that passed away last week. It's not that I didn't want to pay my respects, it's just that I don't think I could have handled seeing her that way and I didn't want my last memory of her being her lying in a casket. Am I wrong for deciding not to go and to pay my respects to her in my own way rather than attending?

2006-11-27 08:53:07 · 28 answers · asked by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 in Friends

2006-11-27 08:52:59 · 10 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know if my biological father is even still alive. I have his social security number (it's on my birth certificate). I'm not as much concerned about finding him as I am the two half brothers that I know I have from him. I'm not sure if they even know I exist, but I'd like to find them, and hopefully have a relationship with them someday. I only know one of their names, and not much else. Is there a way I can track them down using his social security number?

2006-11-27 08:52:53 · 5 answers · asked by Nate 4 in Family

I just read in an American newspaper (I am not American) that a year ago a New Hampshire university professor published research that found that 82% of teen-age girls 13 to 15 who met and hooked up with men over 30 years they found on the net knew exactly what they were doing and wanted to do it. So when Yahoo has a question about young girls with older men why are the men so often called perverts and predators when there is so much mutual consent? Is this more of an American thing? I have noticed most of such answers seem to be (when it can be inferred or deduced) from Americans. Might this because the American consent age is 2 or more years higher than it is in most other countries (including mine)? Why do Americans have so much trouble dealing with realities of teen age sexual behaviours?

2006-11-27 08:52:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i.................?
im in love with this girl in my class
she likes jokin wiv me n i like it to
but thts all im there for
im not there for talking only laughin
this makes me feel leftout
whenever i help her she hardly gives a thank you
she sometimes jus gives me dirtylook
whenever she goes on holiday she will hug everyone except me
i will get a handshake
there was one incident which made me really angry
i was chttin 2 her on MSN then i added one of her close m8s to the conversation
she said to her while i was there that she needed to tell her m8 someting in another conversation. she easily could
have just told her
this made me feel so angry
did she say that on purpose in front of me?
ive tried 2 have a break from her but i always come back
should i stop being in contact with for her for good?
what would you do?

whenever on MSN she never says hi 2 me im the 1 hu strts off the conversation
she sometimes dont talk much om MSN whenver i ask her why she wo

2006-11-27 08:52:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 08:52:29 · 11 answers · asked by nicole w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 08:52:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have M.P.D. (Multiple Personality Disorder). I've learned to control it though mental discipline and a compromise with my other personalities. But I have no control over there wills. While they are in control I can't really stop them from doing what they want. We can all work together though. No one can even tell unless I tell them that's how I am. I started dating an awesome girl who I care about a lot. The bad part: she is 16 and I'm 18. I don't mind waiting 2 years in fact I just think of that as 2 years for us to get to know each other better. The problem: since I've been dating her one of my personalities as had sex with something he likes twice. I had no real involvement but he did this with our body.... my body. I've been thinking about this a lot. I didn't don anything but did I really cheat even though I wasn't the was who did it, it was just my body?

2006-11-27 08:52:09 · 29 answers · asked by SinStrike 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 08:52:05 · 13 answers · asked by The Doctor :3 1 in Friends

My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years. We have both cheated at least three times on eachother. All of this came out in April when I told him I wanted a divorce. We have three children. The two older are his from an X, but bio mom talks to them about five times a year if they are lucky. I have been mom for the past 9 1/2 years (not legally). We decided to stay and try to work it out for everyone's best interest. Since then I have been able to accept the fact that he cheated and move past it, (after all I did the same thing, who am I to cast stones). He still has a problem with my cheating. Sometimes we are good and then sometimes he brings it up just to start arguments. I've tried to leave but can't bring myself to do it. I still care for him, but I don't see us together forever. I am afraid of causing more hurt than I have already caused. I'm also afraid of losing the two older children. I'm caught between what I want and what I should do.

2006-11-27 08:51:21 · 13 answers · asked by Chick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 08:51:12 · 13 answers · asked by Fruitful 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that a bra is singular and panties is plural?

2006-11-27 08:51:06 · 7 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Singles & Dating

hi. need help with a dilemma. me & my ex split ages ago now & shes married now. we have a little daughter who is 5 & with christmas coming up, we buy each other presents 4 each other but write on the tag that its from our daughter (with me so far?) my dilemma is last year i spend £30 on her present (perfume) while she spent about £5 on me (the dreaded socks!) this year should i get her something cheap? or limit it to say a tenner? i dont want her husband to think im buying her expensive gifts (cos to tell you the truth i hardly speak 2 her) but i need 2 get her something from her daughter. i know its not about the cost but i didn,t think it was fair last year. thanks

2006-11-27 08:50:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl buy shes not my gf yet, we are friends for now.

Can I tell her: "Crap I keep forgetting to hug you everytime I see you"

or something like that?

2006-11-27 08:50:48 · 11 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

ive just had a baby and i now have loadz of stretch marks im also a lot bigger than i was, im single and feel to worried about my body will i discust men?

2006-11-27 08:50:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I;m not sure what I want to do when I'm 18. college? moving? I'm good at everything and too many things that I can't decide? have any suggestions?

2006-11-27 08:49:53 · 31 answers · asked by Vanesa G 2 in Friends

I freak out over little things all the time. I am constantly thinking the worst of situations and although my boyfriend told me before we even became boyfriend and girlfriend that he has NEVER cheated on anyone in his life I am always paranoid that he will with me. Now I consider myself to be a good girlfriend. I never allow him to pay for anything and I am very loveable and caring and not an emotional girl meaning, I don't boo hoo and cry. He claims to not show his emotions and said before me he never really told anyone he loved them including his mom, but for some reason I always think that he is unhappy with me or that he would be happier with someone else. What do you think. No smart@$$ people please! Thanks
8-)

2006-11-27 08:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by dazed*n*confused 5 in Singles & Dating

In the beginning of a relationship its really easy to find thingsto talk about, because there's so much to know about your partner. But it gets to a point where I know everything about them, and they me. I know everything they like to do, I know their views on life, I know everything. Its seems like nowadays there isnt a lot more to talk about, and awkward conversations are not uncommon. What should I do now?

2006-11-27 08:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by marc d 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance's mother just emailed to remind me that she has special dietary needs that must be met by the wedding menu (it's a weekend wedding). Why this is rude: we share the same dietary problem- OF COURSE I will make sure there is food for us to eat. She even asked if she needed to bring a cooler! Also- the wedding is still 8 moths away. How do I handle this? I feel like sending back something equally rude but I won't hurt my fiance that way.

2006-11-27 08:48:21 · 36 answers · asked by lifestooshort 2 in Weddings

2006-11-27 08:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Kayla C 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im still 10 years old and im so mature i study algebra and calculus even it's not our school subject.Is it bad to be mature?

2006-11-27 08:48:06 · 5 answers · asked by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 in Friends