I freak out over little things all the time. I am constantly thinking the worst of situations and although my boyfriend told me before we even became boyfriend and girlfriend that he has NEVER cheated on anyone in his life I am always paranoid that he will with me. Now I consider myself to be a good girlfriend. I never allow him to pay for anything and I am very loveable and caring and not an emotional girl meaning, I don't boo hoo and cry. He claims to not show his emotions and said before me he never really told anyone he loved them including his mom, but for some reason I always think that he is unhappy with me or that he would be happier with someone else. What do you think. No smart@$$ people please! Thanks
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2006-11-27 08:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by dazed*n*confused 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound fairly normal, but I have a question. You are the girl of the relationship...why are you paying for everything? It sounds like you might feel the need to buy his love and that makes you nervous...no offense, but I'd make him pick up the tab and have fun doing it. As for him not showing his emotions, my husband is like that...it took him a year and a half to tell me he loved me, but now we're going on five years together and couldn't be happier, so it was totally worth the wait!
2006-11-27 09:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by rdnck_grl_ms_007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of us females feel that one alot of the time....reason being,,getting hurt from someone else in the past. My man has never hurt me but i still have it in the back of my head that hes going to hurt me some way or another. And i cant help but feel that. If your man hasnt done you wrong then try and not worry about it too much. I cant tell you how to feel though. Its not an easy thing to deal with if you have been done wrong in the past.
2006-11-27 16:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think i may be your twin.
i am very very jelous over every girl that like talks to him and sometimes i let it go and then i'd regret it every time the girl talks to him again, and it's not like he does anything to make me suspect hes cheating
he really doens't go out of his way for any girl besides me and i always consider the worst possible situation like when he's out wth the guys *they always end up invited girls-but its not like there is anything i can do bc i'm always busy*
i always think hes mad with the way i act but he says he'd be no happier with anyone else! so i'm just gunna take his word for it.. i really am very happy with what we have and alot of people are jelous of our relationship, they just dont' kno my jelousy!
2006-11-27 16:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by noname446 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend knows how jalous I am,I think we are afraid of loosing somebody we love so much,but I see no problem in being jalous because I am a really jalous person and my boyfriend understand it and respect it and I am happy!!!You are not the only one!!!Good luck
2006-11-27 16:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ease up on him, or you are going to push him to cheating on you. It seems that you are really push. Just back off a little. Enjoy life, and it seems as though something happend to you or someone close to you.
2006-11-27 16:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by JM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are jealous...i think you are insecure...it is ok though...we all have insecurtities about one thing or the other....i think you should talk to him about the way you feel...this will help you to get over this fear...
Communitcation is key....
Good Luck...
2006-11-27 16:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Need Help! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will drive a person away ,its one of the biggest turn offs there is ,shows a lot of inseurity
2006-11-27 16:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Terry S 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest and it's only my mere mortal opinion.
People who don't trust their partners, don't trust themselves!
Sorry
2006-11-27 16:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you are really jealous
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2006-11-27 16:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋