In the beginning of a relationship its really easy to find thingsto talk about, because there's so much to know about your partner. But it gets to a point where I know everything about them, and they me. I know everything they like to do, I know their views on life, I know everything. Its seems like nowadays there isnt a lot more to talk about, and awkward conversations are not uncommon. What should I do now?
2006-11-27 08:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by marc d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to create experiences together, like going out and doing unusual things, road trips, mini-vacations, involving friends when going out to places other than night clubs or parties, go to NFL games and tailgate and have a good time and make fun memories
2006-11-27 08:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you go into a relationship is good to talk about the most important issues in your life. Where you see your life in 5 yrs, how do you feel about kids, what are your goals, what do you want out of a relationship... but if you tell TOO much about yourself then this is what you run into. You should keep your experiences and little life adventures for stories to be told and shared every so often, that way, years too come, you still have stuff to talk about. Besides, as a relationship grows, you make things up along the way to talk about to each other and to tell your friends about too. Blessed be
2006-11-27 16:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Marc d --- What's next ---- As I read your out look - A few thing's stuck out - My thought's are 1. You say you know every thing they like to do ! Have you explored those things , gone places,learning how to add more and more to those thing's they like to do--Not stopping just because you know what they like to do -- To me when some tell's me what they like to do - that mean's they want you to go on that journey with them -- As long as it is a healthy,postive -fun journey -- Explore it - ENJOY IT - And the other side to that coin is You - Can take them on your journey- of the thing's you like to do -- Explore is More !! Then there's alway's ADD ON'S -- Don't just sit on the couch talking about -what you like to do !! Just get up and try it !! You know there view's on life do ya' - There ya ' go again -- Get out and take in some of those view's - they have !! It could open many door's for the both of you -- If you just stay sitting on the couch talking about and not - acting on it -- YOUR BOTH SURE TO GET BORED !!! P.S. Marc D -- None of us know everything about someone else -- Have a good time finding out -- Explore- your like's in each other - You both could have a blast - even if it turn's out you should be just friend's - that's o.k. to -- You'll alway's have a friend to explore with..!! and we all could us a good friend ? Right! You sound like a really good person,I hope I have given' you another way of looking at your story. Bless you- Please keep in touch-- you might have to repeat what i've said back to me one day -- when I need a helping hand.... My name is Pattijo
2006-11-27 17:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new stuff to talk about by having new experiences together. Go to an event you usually wouldn't go to, try a new sport, learn to play a musical instrument or cook or some other skill/talent, and bring some newness into the equation.
2006-11-27 16:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about recent events or what you did on your days apart. Talk about your past or ask if the other person has done anything cool they havent told you about yet. Talk about famous people or go see a movie together and talk about the movie.
2006-11-27 16:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If silence is awkward there is a problem. You should be able to be so comfortable with some one that even during silence you feel comfortable.
2006-11-27 16:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is continuous conversation mandatory in your relationship?
If so, then break up with her & find someone new who you will never ever figure out.
2006-11-27 16:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tak to them about how you are feeling...get deeper into your relationship talk about everything especially your feelings, that is very important. good luck!
2006-11-27 16:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Kristin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can talk gossip
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2006-11-27 16:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋