Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

I just get to know a friend of mine, who get to know a guy for a yr plus but began courtship few mths back, devastasted when he told her he's going to middle east to work.

they were having long distance courtship but he still visit her one or twice a month.

i was really amazed to hear that as she didn't told me about his existence though i knew her for a yr. I mean i consider her as a friend and how can she get herself to such stage.

but my main frustration is, if he aren't serious with my friend, why did he bother to court her. She is now 32, going to 33 next year.

for goodness sake, guys, if u do not have marriage in mind, pls don't date and hurt the gals. i am not saying that u must marry her, but at least act responsibly.

2006-11-27 09:05:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know I just wanna try it?!

2006-11-27 09:05:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a toddler and I live with my bf of 3 years in HIS house...anyways, I have brought up the subject of me getting a job and it seems whenever I do this HE automatically accuses me of either "planning on leaving". Cheating""abadoning our child" He works mostly out of town and earns about80,000-100,000 a year and claiMS i DONT NEED TO WORK then he will get bitchy and go buy me the things I say I want a job for (like clothes,kids toys) and say I dont need a job, well the things is I WANT a job, I need to get out of the house and make my own money and he just doesnt see that, I dont work right now and I hate depending on him, I feel like a child, I have told him this and he says "whatever" he is 32 years old...since he works out of town alot, how do I get him to pay for daycare in the beginning at least, he refuses just so I cant work...HELP.

2006-11-27 09:05:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it primarily a discipline? A choice? An emotion? A committment?

Is there a difference between immature love and mature love? Is it love to feel an emotion we identify as love, even when we make hateful or self-seeking choices? Does love descend on us, and then leave? Do we control it? Is there an 'art' to loving?

What is love?

2006-11-27 09:04:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he never came home, acted as if he didnt need me, but now its a different story since he is in jail, he says he was high and let the meth take over his life he's sorry and it wont happen again, i did not even know he was smoking or doing drugs until he got arrested and i have a 2 yr old daughter to thingk of(his) so should i say screw you or be there for him, for her

2006-11-27 09:03:59 · 20 answers · asked by nicole w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-27 09:03:41 · 6 answers · asked by nathantheguitarist 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 09:03:02 · 19 answers · asked by Cutiegul 2 in Singles & Dating

She uses our 11 month year old son as a weapon, and causes problems between all my family stiring things up.
She tries to wind me up so i will lash out but i have to control my self, I dont know what to do with her?
Any ideas

2006-11-27 09:02:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My future in laws are paying for their daughter's entire wedding! Their son, my fiancee, is getting nothing! My fiancee and I were engaged first and have not recieved any help. Granted we both have jobs and are managing to pay for the wedding, but they are giving their daughter everything! They have paid for her hall, photographer, dj and supplies. My fiancee and I were told they would pay or our hall...never got the money! Now we are being told they will pay for our rehearsal dinner...how can I trust they will? Why would they pay for a wedding that was planned after we started our planning? What would cause the parents to pay for one and not the other? They like me better then their daughter's fiancee...they do love me! Basically I am wondering if anyone else has ever had this happen? What did you do? Why would they do this? How can I get them to help us out more?

2006-11-27 09:02:14 · 22 answers · asked by Blondie98_01 2 in Weddings

What can I do to keep my mind off my ex?
We broke up 3wks ago and its hard to move on.
Help

2006-11-27 09:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 09:02:02 · 19 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 09:01:52 · 4 answers · asked by mildred p 1 in Singles & Dating

Although i m handsome,but i dont have girlfriend.
the girl i like,,my friends take that away.......girls propose to them......dont know why????/

2006-11-27 09:01:29 · 17 answers · asked by honey 2 in Singles & Dating

Like in the movies and stuff. I mean, I know what's attractive about a bad boy, but what is it about good girls that gets the bad boys?
Example -- Dirty Dancing (Johnny is hot and bad...yeah, and Baby is young, naive and innocent. What happened there?)

2006-11-27 09:01:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is jewish.(sorry if i spelled it wrong!) and she is very tomboyish. i can't seem to find what she likes.help!!!

2006-11-27 09:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by Kitty G 1 in Friends

because if so i would hav choosen to stay alive and get married with a very fine man.

2006-11-27 09:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by abby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is jewish.(sorry if i spelled it wrong!) and she is very tomboyish. i can't seem to find what she likes.help!!!

2006-11-27 09:00:23 · 1 answers · asked by Kitty G 1 in Friends

2006-11-27 08:59:50 · 23 answers · asked by zaiden24 2 in Weddings

I don't know if its true or not. I'm not concerned with that. Regardless, did my friend do anything wrong? He did have an erection when he woke up.. and he immediately pushed his bro off of him and scolded him repeatedly. Did my friend do anything illegal?

2006-11-27 08:59:28 · 14 answers · asked by Str8 E 1 in Friends

We've been married for a while and have a kid, but my husband is very abusive verbally. He doesn't think anything is wrong and when I suggest marital therapy, he says I'm the one that needs it, not him. He is always telling me I'd be nothing without him, I couldn't work if I wanted to (I worked at jobs and was a good employee for many years before we got married). I do everything for this guy and my son, and he even abuses our son, too. If it weren't for the fact he was the breadwinner, I'd have left a long time ago and taken out son with me (he asks me when are we gonna leave dad already?).

What to do?????

~FRUSTRATED

2006-11-27 08:59:05 · 31 answers · asked by miamis.girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well my boyfriend talks to me on the computer and says he loves me and calls me sweetie but a school we never talk we have 3 class together what is wrong......???

2006-11-27 08:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 08:58:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-27 08:58:21 · 2 answers · asked by kevin v 1 in Friends

2006-11-27 08:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Petition aginst yahoo answers?
Im thinking about starting a petition aginst yahoo answers because I think that we should get at least 5 points for answering a question if It cost 5 to ask!I think is wrong we only get 2 points!

to sign go to http://www.petitiononline.com/jamale13/petition.html

2006-11-27 08:57:22 · 4 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Friends

Just some ideas.. if a man were to ak his women to marry him around Christmas.. what are some ways they would do it?? Do they wrap the ring... and put it under the tree or would they ask in person??? Have any of you men asked on Christmas?? TY for commenting.

2006-11-27 08:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do about this problem? I am very serious about my boyfriend and the only way to see him is to travel to California as he has travelled to my homestate to see me. My dad strictly forbids me going there to see him, but I am old enough to be out on my own. I am almost 23 years old. Isn't this my decision and not his? Shouldn't I be able to. My mom knows my boyfriend and she has met him in person. We have been going out for a year. Please Help!!

2006-11-27 08:57:02 · 3 answers · asked by brighid 2 in Family

I'm going out with my best friend!!!I mean he is like awesome but it feels weird going out with him!!!!!Mean I want to go out with him but he is like a friend but now he is my boyfriend!!!!

2006-11-27 08:56:54 · 14 answers · asked by carrie b 1 in Singles & Dating

there are many guys that i like well theres only 1 that i trust and care for more then anything.The bad thing is is that hes alot older then i am and i'm not of age to do whatever i want yet.I want to be with him and love him but i cant because he has a family of his own and has 4 kids hes younger then my mom and my mom is 43. Lets just say he could be my dad.His wife wich was sappossed to be his ex talks to me all the time and i dont want to tell her wats goin on because me and the guy promised not to.The guy's sapposed to be ex-wife was only living with him because of the kids,she moved out of the house and moved in with her boyfriend and then moved back in because her and the guy got back together.he was sapposed to be getting a divorce from her well me and the guy was talking alot and he said he would wait for me and he would do anything for me and we have had some great conversations but wat i want to no is wat do i do because i no he still feels the same about me as i do him

2006-11-27 08:56:47 · 8 answers · asked by meg c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What does it mean when a guy writes take care at the end of a message ????
what ot they generally mean does it mean i like you take care or take care as in goodbye...i dated this guy for a bit we both liked each other he asked me if i wanted to go away with him for a week house sitting his family home they have...long story shory i was really stressed about my work and acted a bit strange like snapped at him for no reason we broke up but when i have seen him out he always stars at me and get jealous if im taliking to other guys... anyway i texted him the other day to apologise about acting wierd..he texted back and he hasnt done this much i have been appologising fora while ...it said"dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad you and your frineds can laugh about it. Take care" what does this mean..initially when i met him he had been looking at me for about 40minutes before he approached me. Men could you please help me interpret his actions..i really like him but am confused by his signals what should one do?XXX

2006-11-27 08:56:38 · 5 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating