I just get to know a friend of mine, who get to know a guy for a yr plus but began courtship few mths back, devastasted when he told her he's going to middle east to work.
they were having long distance courtship but he still visit her one or twice a month.
i was really amazed to hear that as she didn't told me about his existence though i knew her for a yr. I mean i consider her as a friend and how can she get herself to such stage.
but my main frustration is, if he aren't serious with my friend, why did he bother to court her. She is now 32, going to 33 next year.
for goodness sake, guys, if u do not have marriage in mind, pls don't date and hurt the gals. i am not saying that u must marry her, but at least act responsibly.
2006-11-27 09:05:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tinkerbel... tks := ) I know u mean but pls don't mistaken I like her although it does sound like. I have someone else in mind.
Beside her I do have many other netfriends, about 20-30 gals, face relationship problem with even worse scenario than my friends. It frustrate me most when they still linger on guys who can't give them happiness they long for. This is what makes me most upset about, as I care for my friends, esp. to a gal, marriage and their youth is something most precious.
2006-11-27 09:24:22 · update #1
Guys ALWAYS do this. They never have marriage in mind until they mature and feel like they want to get married.
2006-11-27 09:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that is something that should definitely be discussed. But I seriously don't know of any girls who tell a guy on the first date that they want to marry them. That is kind of silly. But if you've been in a relationship for awhile and can't see yourself with her and she wants the need result to be marriage..GET OUT. You will only break her heart.
2016-05-23 15:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule, written or un, that dating needs to lead to marriage. If someone is marriage-minded, then it's their responsibility to discover if the person they are considering dating is open to that at some point in the future (generally speaking).
Some people simply like to have someone in their life...someone to share with and be intimate with, but have no desire to marry...there's nothing wrong with that.
There's nothing at all wrong with the scenario you described...only if someone is misled or lied to, is there an issue.
2006-11-27 09:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very common ! The prob is the woman .She stays for longer than 6 months with the guy.Its very clear by six months what kind a guy they are.Why wouldnt he date she puts out and like love em and leave em! You have to hook em fast or get out ! Hey like my husband said when he was single why ruin a good thing! typical male !
2006-11-27 09:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see where in your question it says that he did not plan on marrying her. I must have missed something. He did say he is going to the middle east to work, did he also say he did not want to see her again?
2006-11-27 09:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like ur annoyed with him and also sounds like u like the girl in question why dont u tell her
2006-11-27 09:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-27 09:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens all the time.
2006-11-27 09:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by ssmithblueskies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋