My wife is blackmailing me?

Question

She uses our 11 month year old son as a weapon, and causes problems between all my family stiring things up.
She tries to wind me up so i will lash out but i have to control my self, I dont know what to do with her?
Any ideas

Thank you everyone, you have been so helpfull.
And made me feel so much better!

Answer 1

time to find a girlfriend

Answer 2

Thats good your figured her out so soon many men don't find out till its too late. And yes its terrible when women use there kids as a pon or black mail or to pull on the mans heart strings. Lots of women not all do this from what i've read and seen at offices. Its there shoe in to keeping a man even getting pregnant before the marriage. then the man falls in love with the little childand boom instant family. While let her know your one up on her game and your not falling for her crap. She will most likely think of something else women like that normally do.

Keep your cool she wants you to get pissed off. Let her know you see right through her.

And show yourself as you are and the rest of the family will come to know in time she's just a sneaky coniving Biatch.

Answer 3

Tell her to knock it off, or you will leave divorce her and file for custody. Sometimes the "fear of God" will cause someone to change. You should never put up with someone always holding a child over your head. That's just childish on their part. Some females think that once they have that baby they can do or say what ever they want. But they need to realize most people are raising their children alone or with stepparents, or split custody. Just because you can create something that precious doesn't mean you are free to trample others lives. Good luck

Answer 4

Pretend she is a 2 year old child throwing tantrums. Would you get angry at the child? Of course not, because you expect it from a child, and manage the situation the best you can.

Some women act like children, and the only way to deal with it is to not get involved with the games emotionally.

Trust me, I know.

Answer 5

1. Get a divorce, give up the kid and pay the child support and find someone better.

2. Document all the crazy stuff she does and use it in court when you fight for custody.

I had a friend who was in that situation. He ended up getting fully custody of the kid.

Answer 6

the one thing i can say is file a police report on her just call the police and tell them what is going on because one day she gets really mad and calls the cops on u for hitting her even though u didnt the will have it on file that she is trying to get u in trouble ok this all most happened to a friend of mine

Answer 7

leave her, take her to court, explain to the judge the position that you are in, get a scheduled time to see your son, remove contact with her, have a third party do the delivery of your child, or meet in a neutral place.

Answer 8

Its not blackmail anymore if she has nothing to hold on you....if it is something that you are hiding that she knows about....come clean... don't give in or lash out... that just gives her the power.... don't give in to the bull S*%T and you will be in control.

Answer 9

File for custody of your child and leave her...you don't need that kind of psycho crap around your baby. Good luck, sweetie!

Answer 10

Tell her to take a hike and file for divorce.

Answer 11

You're problem is that you've been way too nice to her. Time to toughen up buddy!!