Like in the movies and stuff. I mean, I know what's attractive about a bad boy, but what is it about good girls that gets the bad boys?
Example -- Dirty Dancing (Johnny is hot and bad...yeah, and Baby is young, naive and innocent. What happened there?)
2006-11-27 09:01:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just curious. ^_^
2006-11-27 09:01:49 · update #1
some reasons: they want to take their innocence away or try to, or that they really like 'em...
Wickedwit says fiction is not life, but some times the writers of fiction stories/movies mirror what they know about life/ real life situations, etc. ;-)
I don't know what some people would consider as being a bad girl. Bad girl= someone that has slept w/more than one guy (many reasons for that) or Bad girl = "Girls Gone Wild."
Anyway, try to be compassionate towards the ones with bad reps, too. Cuz you don't know the reasons why for all. Some people are plain out mean & want to hurt others but a good person can have sympathy for them, too. :-) Peace & kind words to all ~if possible! {hug}
2006-11-27 09:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by Nocine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the Good Girls fall for the Bad Boys.
2006-11-27 09:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by verduneuro 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Bad boys like good girls because a good girl has a high opinion of herself. She knows that she is worth his time. A bad girl does not have a high opinion of herself, she feels that she has to do whatever a boy says and she has been with many, many boys. A bad girl (pitiful girl) has no opinion of her own and she is grateful for any attention from any boy. She does not even stop and ask herself if she likes the boy.
2006-11-27 09:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's the other way around. How many girls have I known who took up with questionable guys? I don't see bad boys pursuing good girls. Some of these guys are really not desirable. They are happy to accept any attention they get.
These girls go after them time and time again. They believe that they can reform them. I feel sorry for them, but after doing it a couple of times, they should really get a life. Find something more constructive to do with your time. Nice doesn't equal boring.
One girl I knew waited eighteen months for her drug-trafficking boyfriend to get out of jail and he was abusive to her. She wasn't the ideal 'good girl' but she was a lot more innocent than he was and had spent a lifetime struggling with depression and low self-esteem. She wasn't a target, though. He once hit her so hard with a shower head that she turned around and slammed a vase into his head. The police refused to charge her because he had a history of assault and burglary.
These men rarely believe they deserve such women and don't find them attractive. I never heard a 'bad boy' say he wanted to corrupt a woman who was a goodie-goodie. I honestly think they do not like those girls because they think they're too good for them or are out of their sphere.
Look at the kind of girls that Motley Cru members went after: strippers, prostitutes and porns stars. That's what they can handle. The women do not see that the guys and those industries are using them. It is sexual exploitation. That is all those guys care about. Most of the time, these 'bad boys' are like that. I would stay away from them. Not every 'nice guy' is like Bill Gates, you know. A nerd is better than a loser.
2006-11-27 09:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
you just said it, young, naive and innocent, gets the blood flowing just at the very thought, some guys like a challenge, easy girls are good for the moment but embarrassing to be identified with and usually simple in the mind, boring and self-centered
2006-11-27 09:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think the phenomena is actually the opposite way, that good girls fall for bad boys!
2006-11-27 09:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by LesHug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone likes a good girl ... a good guy and a bad guy ... its just that the bad guys work their charm and steal them away while the good guys keep looking.
Plus if I were a bad guy why would a want a bad girl .. i would love to have a good girl .. anytime.
2006-11-27 09:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by GoodGuy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
are you joking the whole naive and innocent is just as hot as the whole bad girl image its the ones that don't know what they wanna do that just bad business
2006-11-27 09:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by t_j_watkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proably the same reason the sweet guys fall for bad girls like me.
2006-11-27 09:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract. Most people are attracted to people that are different. Some times more drastic then others
2006-11-27 09:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by bollrog69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋