Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

he said he started to talk to me


im easy to talk to (he says) but i dont really talk to people about stuff, my friends says hes to controling and sometimes i feel the same!

hes an aquarious and im an aris, i asked some one about zodiac signs and they told me that he would destroy me (aquarious is water sign and aris is a fire sign)


please dont critisize me i just really fell kind helpless he doesnt even let me talk on the phone after like 10:00 or he gets really mad

please give me your ideas (dont be mean please!!!)


he gets kinda scary plz help!!!!

2006-11-26 09:48:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok if you are a 17/f/cali and are dating a guy who is nice and sweet but you love hanging out with this other guy who is a bad *** and you two havw done it would you tell the nice guy and dump him or just keep ypur mouth shought help

2006-11-26 09:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by princess10289@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

I was over at my cousin, Jewel's house and her brothers had all their friends over so there were 5 guys there. And there was this REALLY HOT guy, his name was Sam, and my friends at Jewel's house were saying he was saying he liked me to all his friends. I didn't believe it til' I found out that his birthday was 3 days away from me and he was always smiling at me and spying on us in our room. And when we were playing a game that involved them shooting unloaded guns at us and having us act like it hurt and he would always try to shoot me and take me back to the club and was a jail for us and always let me go free first. And the police came to Jewel's house later and accused Sam and my other cousin, Skyler, of breaking Christmas lights and all of the people in his family had to go home. I don't think he did it though. I might be able to talk to him on the phone on Tuesday if he isn't grounded though. But I have a boyfriend but he doesn't live by me and I don't know what I should do.

2006-11-26 09:47:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, i have been chating with this guy, and he is really nice but i am not physically attracted to him, but obnly see him as a really great friend and someone i love to talk to!! Well, last night he said this to me: 'i think u should get a new bf.....' hope i get to talk to u soon" what does this mean???? he doesnt like me in more of then friend way, does he?? because that will destroy our friendship and i dont want that!! i like him as a friend!! So what does it mean, if anything?? and what do i do now??? i dont want to lose him as a friend because we have great chats!!

2006-11-26 09:47:01 · 18 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

im in 8th grade and i dont have a b/f and i have never been kissed. how many people out there have? how do u know if its good.
im not ugly. most ppl in my grade are single

2006-11-26 09:44:55 · 29 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Singles & Dating

You have a girlfriend of a couple of years. You have never made love because she has some issues to sort out. She only wants you to date her in an open crowded social area. She cannot allow you to kiss or hug her and you know she is not a virgin. What would you make of her?

2006-11-26 09:44:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my bf for 2 years and am pretty happy. I get annoyed bc he never has money bc hes getting ready to start school again and in the middle of a career change. when he isnt worried about finances, hes fun to be around, but i hate how he is when he has the stress. how do you know if this person is right for you? Did you ever have doubts or question it? Even after fights? Were there any big differences that were hard to overcome or questioned if it would work? money, religion, ethics..? different perspectives on them?

2006-11-26 09:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by ~*Amy*~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and the guy i was talking about hes my friend and i really want him to ask me out but he haesnt.and he looks at me and stuff but i just dont know if i should ask him out.he haesnt said yes to any girl.and if i ask him out im afraid that if he says no that it will ruin r friendsip.hannah what should i do?

2006-11-26 09:43:30 · 4 answers · asked by brittney l 1 in Singles & Dating

We are VERY attracted to each other. He has always been attracted to me. When I was 16, he asked me out & wanted me then. Apparently, my friend went behind me & told him he wasnt my type. He was deployed a short time later. We reunited 10 years ago.......... This is NOT a new relationship& yes, sex has come into it. We have never been secretive & talk about everything. Problem is.......... He is very career oriented & his job is VERY dangerous. He says I distract him very easily. I am affraid that if he knows I am in love with him ( he knows I love him - we are close ) He may shy away due to the job...... Ok guys, what do you say........tell him or not ? P.S - he has made mention about possibly changing positions. He is in Law Enforcement. *not a street officer. Ever seen the "UNIT"? Please help.

2006-11-26 09:42:52 · 5 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you suggest I tell a gut that I went on one date with that I don't want to see him again? The first date went okay, so I have no particular reason for not wanting to see him again, except that I really don't feel he is right for me. It has to be in a nice way, becuase he is a friend of one of my best friends.

2006-11-26 09:41:58 · 11 answers · asked by Joy22 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I am 15 years old and I have been dating ny boyfriend for like about 7 months now and I a virgen and my boyfriend "IS NOT" and he have been asking me when will Ibe ready to hav S.E.X. He have been buging me abput this since we start dating and I really do not know what to do. I ask one of my best friends and she told me "DON'T DO IT BECAUSE HE WANT TO DO IT BE CAUSE YOU WANT DO IT." In she never really have like him from the start. She said he just want one thing and he will be out, but she never really just sat down to listin to what he have to say. But, we is in love with each other and I don't want to do something that I will regret later on in my life.

In I need someone to talk about these kind of things if you could help me please e-mail me back at seey_baby_girl016@yahoo.com

2006-11-26 09:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by lil crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I have The Worst luck with guys ever and I will admit most of it is my fault because I tend to push people away. I have done this for a while because I has beaten and raped when I was younger and have a hard time trusting people now, but evertime I like a guy he flirts for a while then it's like bam he's done and there's no more anything for a long time. So when they leave I am left feeling more an more confused and a little hurt since I think they like me but it turns out they dont.
Dose anyone else have this promblem???

2006-11-26 09:41:04 · 13 answers · asked by Alayna M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this huge problem when I try to approach new people, I can never do it and if I do, I completely freeze up and I'm not just talking about girls, guys as well. When I'm in school I'm generally fine and can talk to people but the fact that I go to an all-boys school and can never talk to people outside it, has led to me never having a girlfriend. I was just wondering if anybody knew a good way to break out of shyness and be able to approach new people. Thanks in advance

2006-11-26 09:40:12 · 7 answers · asked by nomore11857 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

does anybody know a good website where you can get those sex stories, its basically like porn but without the visual aid. theres one like about two girls watching a movie at home then they start doing it just to experiment, then one of the girl's stepdad comes home and joins them. their really cool but I don't remember where to get the good ones.

2006-11-26 09:39:24 · 13 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you answer yes then tell me the definition of love,what a woman's worth is, and how you treat a lady.Then maybe you could e-mail me if you are between 15 and 17.

2006-11-26 09:39:12 · 7 answers · asked by Such a Lady!! 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when your b/f says you have a firery spirit?? I am not violent. He says he likes the fact that I am firery. What does he mean?? Is it bad to have a firery spirit??

2006-11-26 09:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 09:38:36 · 12 answers · asked by civitano204 1 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and i've known this guy for a little over a year now, im white and he's black and when my parents found out we liked each other, we weren't aloud 2 talk. well now we're aloud 2 talk but only because i said we're jus FRIENDS...i hate lying, but i love him and its the only way i can talk to him...my dad doesn't like him because he's black, and my mom likes him, but only when she thinks we're only FRIENDS....i want 2 b with him sooo bad, but i know if my parents find out, i'll never be aloud 2 c him again....my whole family is like this...im the only one who doesnt really see color...but i know for a fact that my mom has liked black guys...but she doesn't know i know that so i cant use that against her...we want 2 b 2gether so bad...and im willing 2 take this chance...i'll deal with the consequences when they come.....im not saying he's the ONE for me, i mean im only 14 & im not thinkin of that now. i just want him 2 b my boyfriend....am i making the right desion???

2006-11-26 09:38:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I asked out this guy and he gave me his cell phone nuber. I need to talk to him and ask him where he wants go go for a first date. (remember im only in jr high.) There is a school dance coming up but the music is sooooo loud you can barely hear your self think in there. Where would be a good place for a jr high first date? :) Thanks for the help!!!!!!

2006-11-26 09:38:23 · 1 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 09:37:44 · 24 answers · asked by Joy22 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I might be in love with a close friend of mine. We've been friends for at least 5 years now and I try to be with her as much as possible. She's got a talent for making me laugh and cheering me up when I'm depressed. And I find myself thinking about her randomly through the day like: "She would really like to see this" or "I wonder what she would think about this."

But as much as I like being around her, I'm not really sexually attracted to her at all. Does this sound like love or a crush to you, or is just friendship?

2006-11-26 09:37:18 · 3 answers · asked by Phantazy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just want to know what you think. I have really only been in a few serious relationships so just looking for some perspective. Me and this girl hit it off big w/ each other but over time she grew distant. It happens, but when we talked about it, she said it wasn't me, it was her. You don't have to tell me what that meant, but things kept running hot and cold for a few months. So we talked and talked and she kept saying the same thing, it was her, not me. And now I really believe her. The problem is I was pushing for her to make a decision about her feelings for me, as I thought she was just leading me on w/ the hot/cold, it's me stuff. We're on a "break" right now and it occurs to me she needs to see me as a great friend, too. SO I guess my question is, this is all backwards, isn't it? Do the relationship thing THEN work on being good friends with each other? Does this ever work? Or does this have to happen if it's going to work? I absolutely love this girl.

2006-11-26 09:37:13 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Well there is this guy and we both like each other and i think im ready to be more then friends...but i don't no if i should ask him.....Will it be to aqwuard or no!!!

2006-11-26 09:37:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last night i had a car accident but it wasnt something serious,a few scratches in my car.so i texted to the guy im seeing "i just had a car accident,im fine".he texted back sg that i didnt read cos i accidentaly deleted it and because he didnt call i texted "im going to the hospital i ap for the consern" and he replied "u told me u were ok" and since today he hasnt called.did he think i was joking or playing or he should have called anyway?and now what do i say to him?

2006-11-26 09:36:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 09:35:56 · 29 answers · asked by Confused_and_Depressed 1 in Family

I Have been a Jets fan for 20 years and because of a fun family rivalry, I hate the Giants. I am now living with a guy who is a die hard Giants fan. He insists that because we are now living together I must support his team and if I don't I am being rude and not acting like someone in a real relationship should. I think he is rediculous. Any Ideas?

2006-11-26 09:35:33 · 13 answers · asked by mskrippers 1 in Singles & Dating

We all have ex-somebodies in our past (spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend) so why did you break up with the ex?

2006-11-26 09:34:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright. plz don't criticize me but my bf likes to watch me masturbate and I'm running out of ideas to keep him entertained. any suggestions?

2006-11-26 09:34:18 · 12 answers · asked by athletic_hotie 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I've been with this guy for a year and 3 months and he's amazing. What do ya'll think are some cute gestures or gifts to show this guy how much he truly still has me swept off my feet??? ........Thanks :)

2006-11-26 09:32:55 · 6 answers · asked by Ivanna 2 in Singles & Dating

He told me our kiss was magical.. Then he changed is mind and called it a Fluke.. I suppose he just can't get over it.. True or False?

2006-11-26 09:32:39 · 7 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating