ok if you are a 17/f/cali and are dating a guy who is nice and sweet but you love hanging out with this other guy who is a bad *** and you two havw done it would you tell the nice guy and dump him or just keep ypur mouth shought help
2006-11-26 09:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by princess10289@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i undrstand what you are saying but i forgot to tell you i wasent with the nice guy untill after the bad boy and i got down later that night the nice guy asked me out
2006-11-26 09:58:16 · update #1
Well, how deep is your relationship w/the sweet guy? If you two are pretty serious, then I would call it off. It's obvious you aren't ready to be serious yet. So instead of leading him on thinking that something deeper will spark between you two, just call it off before it gets too deep. You don't have to tell the sweet guy the details. Just say, that you two are in two different places right now, and you're not ready to be serious just yet. He will respect your honesty (hopefully). And you can walk with your head held high because you were honest.
2006-11-26 09:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you owe it to the nice guy to at least tell him.
Please realize that you are a cheater and a bad person for doing it. It's not true that you "just couldn't help it" or anything else. You cheated, and if the nice guy leaves you for it, he's completely justified in doing so.
Why do girls like badasses so much more than nice guys? Now you will probably date the bad guy and he'll beat you and cheat, but you won't go away from him. Good work.
2006-11-26 17:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first first i believe in doing what you feel is right and i dont believe in leading any one on so if you want to be in a sexual relationship with some one else then please break it off. and if you have already cheeted on the nice guy hate to say it but dont tell him just end the relationship. telling him its over is going to be hard enough. but telling him you cheated on him and and leaving him for another guy will be alot harder to do. and it would hurt him alot more.
2006-11-26 17:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why have a boyfriend if your going to mess around with another guy...I would let the nice guy go so he can find a nice girl not a ho
2006-11-26 17:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you should openly admit it to your boyfriend, because what if your boyfriend finds out about it then he will be even more mad at you.If your boyfriend really loves you then he will stick with you.
2006-11-26 17:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm us girls always ike the bad ones...
dont tell ur boyfriend, whats in the past is in the past
AS LONG as it is in the past... dont sleep with him anymore
but yeah shut ur mouth about it
2006-11-26 17:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know what they say.. nice guys finish last///// let him finish last with a NICE GIRL.... take the grease ball. it'll teach you a lesson.
2006-11-26 17:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. If you don't he will find out, hate you and it will hunt you.
2006-11-26 17:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by rainbow monkeys! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋