Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

Ok I asked out this guy and he gave me his cell phone nuber. I need to talk to him and ask him where he wants go go for a first date. (remember im only in jr high.) There is a school dance coming up but the music is sooooo loud you can barely hear your self think in there. Where would be a good place for a jr high first date? :) Thanks for the help!!!!!!

2006-11-26 09:32:29 · 3 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend wrote a poem and we can't think of any good titles..so if you can think of any good one's please tell me. And Im serious, so if you're going to put a dumb answer please leave.

I never meant to hurt you.
I never wanted you to cry.
I never meant the things I said.
If only you knew why....

You made living life so hard
And at times I wanted to quite.
You made me what I am today
And you still blame them for it.

I never lived up to your expectations.
I was always one step below.
And although I tried to make you proud.
It never really showed.

You always made me feel worthless.
Why was I even there?
You made me last in life
Yet, you still didn't care.

But through all the pain you caused me
I still loved you inside.
You might have never saw it.
Whatever. You didn't try.

2006-11-26 09:32:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok I asked out this guy and he gave me his cell phone nuber. I need to talk to him and ask him where he wants go go for a first date. (remember im only in jr high.) There is a school dance coming up but the music is sooooo loud you can barely hear your self think in there. Where would be a good place for a jr high first date? :) Thanks for the help!!!!!!

2006-11-26 09:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so this boy broke up with his girlfriend or his girlfriend broke up with him, the story really never got straight and i didn't want to be constanty asking about it. but anyways, now he is single and me and him have been basically boyfriend and girlfriend just without the title. so we aren't going out but we still call eachother all the time, hang out, cuddle, kiss and make out....i talked to my friend about it and she told me that his friend told her that he liked me a lot but he just wanted to be single for awhile. well why would he want to be single when he likes me and knows i like him back? i mean i understand he needs time but he rushed right into this little thing with me and that was his choice. how can it even be considered single when he is pretty much seeing me all the time and kissing me? i don't know i just feel stupid for liking someone and kissing them when they just "want to stay single for awhile." but honestly, shouldn't i feel stupid?

2006-11-26 09:31:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

aside from them telling you (rarely happens) what are the signs that they like you?

2006-11-26 09:30:56 · 11 answers · asked by spongebob_horse_pants 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and i have had sex 12 times is that too mucjh

2006-11-26 09:30:39 · 1 answers · asked by PIMP 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently discover my boyfriends porn collection, I found it in the upper draw of his dresser i asked him to throw it away n he said he did 3 months ago but he didnt, and now he is looking at porn online. i was on our computer and all these porn sites where listed in the history toolbar. i just dont get it. i am a pretty girl 5'9 118lbs 36 24 32 there is no reason for him to be looking at porn. got an answear let me know.

2006-11-26 09:30:36 · 16 answers · asked by B 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends and I were hanging out when my b/f's friend challenged me to a race(My friend and I race cars, as does he) When he lost he came over and hit me. My b/f came over all worried about me and pissed off at his friend.
Why do you feel you have to protect girls?? I was perfectly fine finishing what that s.o.b. started but instead he made me calm down and he finished it. Why wouldn't he let me?? Should I be proud or mad??
Am I firery?? He says I have a firery spirit. Do I?? What does he mean by it??

2006-11-26 09:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends friend claimed that I sent her a txt messgae saying that I was going to dump my girlfriend and that I didn't love her, we (me and Laura) spoke about this and she asked me about it, of course I said NO because I love her nad I always will love her no matter what as she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, she is my soulmate..anways we have resolved this within ourselves but I just want to know why the hell her mate would do such a nasty thing to upset her like she did...

Mitch

2006-11-26 09:27:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As another answerer put:

"I've seen a couple of "girly" chat programs and all the hot chicks
want at least 6"."

Ladies would you agree?
Also if you like girth what sort of girth do you like?

2006-11-26 09:27:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think so, but I've been hearing things from my parents re: this. Just because one parent makes more $$ and a newer house should that make any difference? I don't think a minor can make such a decision until perhaps they reach 18 yrs. Does anyone know for sure??

2006-11-26 09:26:33 · 19 answers · asked by jeep 2 in Family

thhe beautiful rich girl or the soso lookin girl that is a sporty of girl

2006-11-26 09:26:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 09:25:59 · 22 answers · asked by maggie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-boyfriend & I still have feelings for each other, so we are going to dinner tonight to talk things out. I don't want to get back together, so how do i tell him no?

2006-11-26 09:25:50 · 16 answers · asked by Sara Lee Ann <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my three friends (All in our late 20's) have formed a team to help out our neighborhood. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and am the leader. Then there is the guy who wears the Grimace costume, he is the strong man. Then there is the guy who is a convicted sex offender, he wears a trenchcoat like the matrix. And lastly, their is "The Professional", he wears a cardboard Burgerking crown and a fake muscle suit. We walk around town and knock on random doors. When the person answers, I dance and do a Jar Jar quote, then make a loud screech with an air horn. While the person is reeling from the sound, the sex offender confesses that he is a sex offender (as required by his parole). Then the grimace throws some leaves and dirt into the persons house. And lastly, Muscle King plays 'me so horny' on his boombox and we dance. We have done this to hundreds of houses. Are we some kind of kings? I don't know how?

2006-11-26 09:25:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for two years and have had an active role in my step daughters life, where her mother has not. My step daughters mother doesn't think that I should be included anywhere on the invitations. Much less have any say in the wedding. The daughter thinks I should but doesn't want to hurt her mothers fellings. The mother is not paying for any of the wedding either. Should I step aside? I don't want my step daughter to stress. Nor do I want to hurt her feelings. HELP!

2006-11-26 09:25:39 · 19 answers · asked by Raven Beauty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it's my internet boyfriend.. he usually makes me go to bed before he leaves at night but, last night he was tired so he told me i could stay up for 15 more minutes. i stayed up for 35 minutes and sent him an email telling him. it was only 20 minutes more. so, he emailed me back saying "so, you owe me 20".
20 what?
i'm serious, i know it's stupid, but what does he mean?

2006-11-26 09:25:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to figure out this fear for rejection, how can i stop it???

2006-11-26 09:23:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost contact with my gf because her time ran out on a site and i can't talk to her and i really like her that's what,s wrong and i don't know what to do about it

2006-11-26 09:23:59 · 2 answers · asked by csm 4 in Singles & Dating

here is the story....we have been friends starting in may, and well....things went very slowly until we finally slept together in july - so basically two months. now i know it is wrong, so i dont need to hear that part. but her finace doesnt do anything for her, i had a girlfriend who cheated on me three times, and i finally gave up on the third time. now, she is planning to be with him even though she doesnt want him at all. she is afraid of hurting the family side and not worrying about her happiness. this guy doesnt touch her, do her..basically the OLD married (but not yet) couple. my heart wants her and she already says that she wants me, so i think that the green light is on for me to ask. ive never been married, and in the 9 yrs of relationships ive had, i havent come across someone like her. i think i should throw all my chips into the pot and ask. i dont want the "what if" to be with me forever. if she stays with him, so be it. but i tried right? so what's wrong with this-me?

2006-11-26 09:23:45 · 6 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy and we only really talk when either im drunk i call him or its the oppoiste..we say how we wana get with eachother adn meet upp and stuff.. but sumthing always get in the way with us meeting upp...and we hag out when hes broken up with his girlfried who is a big whore and now he doesnt like her....

does the truth come out wen hes drunk or does he wanna get sumthing from me

and ya we talk sober sumtimes also haha mostly drunk tho

2006-11-26 09:23:14 · 5 answers · asked by xoditzxo 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a great relationship with my husband before we got married, just five short months ago, now it seems like I have to walk on eggshells around him to keep him happy. I take care of our daughter, clean, do the laundry and work. I don't understand why everything has changed! It is heartbreaking, when he is so disrespectful to me. I find myself daydreaming of how things used to be.

2006-11-26 09:23:08 · 22 answers · asked by veronica c 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is your g/f was hit by ur best friend, would you stand up for her or let her fight? Would you be worried a 17yr old would hurt a 5'1 95lb girl? Why do you think you have to protect her?? Would you be mad at her for possibly ruining ur friendship or him for hurting her?? His friend was pissed cuz he lost a race to a 16yr old gymnast in a pink porsche. Is it normal for ur b/f to take over and not let you fight. I so wanted to fight, but he said he would and did?Why do guys feel they have to protect girls?? Is it a kind gesture or way of showing off??

Good Answer??
Men just have the instinct to protect the one they love. It's primal. He probably wasn't showing off, it's a code among them too. You don't do things like that and if you do then there are consequences. I learned this from my ex. I know how you feel, I can definately take care of myself but my ex always thought he had to protect me. It's sweet. If that guy really hit you, then he deserved a shot in the mouth.
Is this true?

2006-11-26 09:22:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just broke up w/ my ex and i dont really care except he keeps bothering my freinds (i home scool.freinds are public) and its driving me crazy.what should i do????

2006-11-26 09:21:51 · 9 answers · asked by jennybankston 1 in Singles & Dating

I know the obvious about the sex thing but if they are not doing that, is it illegal just to be dating? Does anyone know??



Ok, the deal here is that I am the mom of the 15 year old. The boy, who is only 17 right now but will be 18 in March, is a really cool kid. He's very respectful to me and her and their relationship seems to be going very well, without sex. My daughter and I talk a lot so I know. But her stepdad keeps telling me this is illegal in March.

2006-11-26 09:21:47 · 15 answers · asked by sistermoon 4 in Singles & Dating

His a good dad and all but he is not the husband I once married. We've through a lot of ups and downs but now I'm now I realized I'm not happy with him but I'm afraid to leave because I need his help with the kids; just as a someone who would watch my kids while at work. (He is out of work) I tried to kick him out but he would go inside my home like he still leaves here. so I decided to let him stay and I felt bad because he has no where to stay, he has no money for his own place so I let him stay and we fight alot again. can someone please let me know if you were in this crazy situation or know anyone that has ; please advice

2006-11-26 09:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by frances_babie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I recently got over some rocky times in our relationship. But when I talked to him the other night he was mad at me for what reason I still do not know. This upset me and I told him it was over for good but quickly regreted it. He ended up calming down and told me to take the night to think it over. So I did and I didnt sleep at all. I came to the conclusion that i m in love with him and don't want to lose him. But he said since I was so quick to end it that he's not sure and he had to think about it. So he later sent me an email saying that he hadn't heard anything from me in a day so he took it as i don't want to be together and that since i was so quick to end it I don't love him anymore and don't want to be with him. A few more emails were exchanged and he said if I thought of a way to fix it to let him know and that he still loved me. My last reply to him was that the only way to try to fix this is to give a relationship another try. I haven't heard back from him.

2006-11-26 09:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I went over to my boyfriends' house for awhile after work. His family was in town and we were just hanging out watching a movie and stuff when there was a knock at the door. My bf got up and looked through the peephole and said that it was some little kid knocking on doors and he didnt answer it. About 7 minutes later it happened again, although this time it was more of a pounding. He got up and looked through the peephole again but the person had covered it, so he didnt answer it. It got late and I was tired, so I said goodbye and walked out the door. As I opened the door a piece of paper fell. It said: "Dan- I stopped by to say hi but you weren't home. See you tomorrow! <3 (heart), Amanda."
I brought it inside and said "hey, this fell." and he said, "haha. oh. chick from work."

2006-11-26 09:19:53 · 18 answers · asked by ~*Amy*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 09:19:07 · 50 answers · asked by Pat L 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 stepdaughters and a son - and I find it hard to be their main disciplinarian... not because my husband does not let me, but because I keep thinking I would hate to see my son in those shoes...
My stepdaughters are great girls, we get along great, and I do teach them right from wrong... but when more serious things happen, I go to my husband... and he does the same when it comes to my son...
We do not spank - so you know - so that problem does not exist...
I have been criticized because of my position a few times, but I do not feel that I should change if it works for us...
If my husband were to die and the kids were to stay with me, it would be different... but with their father around, I think we should discuss all matters together (as we do) and apply the actions on our own kids.

2006-11-26 09:18:41 · 15 answers · asked by luckylady 2 in Family