How do I tell him no?

Question

My ex-boyfriend & I still have feelings for each other, so we are going to dinner tonight to talk things out. I don't want to get back together, so how do i tell him no?

Answer 1

I don't want to get back together

Answer 2

If you don't want to get back with him, then you don't want to lead him on.

The best thing for you to do is to call him as soon as possible, and tell him that you don't think this is such a good idea. If you're worried about hurting his feelings, just tell him that you think you still need a little more time 2 sort out your feelings, and if you spend time with him 2nite, then it may make things even more confusing for you.

If you go on this date with him tonight, he's going to think that there's a possibility of the two of you working this out. If u REALLY don't want 2 try it, cancel the date b4 u get back into this thing a little too hard.

Answer 3

Well Not Interested- Your problem is not a new one you now see that relationships carry a lot of difficult decisions. Well try not to separate as enemies stay friends. Just tell him! be honest, he may hurt and you may hurt but that's the way it is humans are not usually heartless. As a Male I know that I have many female friends! and I love them all so much. True friendship means so much more than any flirting relationship ever will, it doesn't allow for head games. Think about it Good Luck to you both. Stay Safe

Answer 4

Do you have a good reason why you don't want to get back together? If you're going to dinner tonight with him, please let him know that you don't think that a relationship between you two will work. But please say it nicely because guys have feelings too! (Or so I've been told!)

I am sure that you will do fine! Good luck!

Answer 5

maybe you shouldn't have agreed to go to dinner with him. That is giving him false hope. I hope you don't plan on stringin him along. He sounds like he is emotionally fragile right now and would probably go along for the ride. But be the bigger person and just tell him straight forward that the romantic relationship is over.

Answer 6

oh my dear!! my ex-boyfriend and i went to lunch yesterday and i had that feeling that he was going to ask me to come back. we broke up for a reason (his reason) and he pushed me away so much that i just learned to dislike him very much, but deep down i could never hate him & i secretly have these thoughts of him asking me back. i know how you feel. you need to stand your ground and tell him the upmost truth about how you feel. if you definitely do not want to get back together with him then he needs to understand that you've moved on. he'll be heart-broken of course, but you might just surprise yourself with how strong you can be for letting him go.

Answer 7

Tell him how you feel about him then tell him that you dont want to get back together. Be honest and straight foward. He'll might be upset at first but in the end he'll respect your honesty.

Answer 8

you can tell him that he is a nice person and everything, but you only see the relationship as just a friend based one. tell him that this time you only see him as a friend and nothing more. you can also tell him that you're not ready or comfortable to get things started again between you two.

Answer 9

When you get to the restaurant, whenever you address him, make sure that you emphasize "friendship" when you speak; this way he'll get the point loud and clear—friendship is all you're interested in.

Answer 10

don't even go out with him, cuzz it's kinda like leading him on... if it's NO... it should all be NO... no dinners,, no friend stuff.. the friendship was ruined when you started dating... that's why you don't date Friends of the opposite sex...it's All over now... too bad