Well I am 15 years old and I have been dating ny boyfriend for like about 7 months now and I a virgen and my boyfriend "IS NOT" and he have been asking me when will Ibe ready to hav S.E.X. He have been buging me abput this since we start dating and I really do not know what to do. I ask one of my best friends and she told me "DON'T DO IT BECAUSE HE WANT TO DO IT BE CAUSE YOU WANT DO IT." In she never really have like him from the start. She said he just want one thing and he will be out, but she never really just sat down to listin to what he have to say. But, we is in love with each other and I don't want to do something that I will regret later on in my life.
In I need someone to talk about these kind of things if you could help me please e-mail me back at seey_baby_girl016@yahoo.com
2006-11-26 09:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by lil crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can only give yourself for the first time ONCE.
If you ask me, which you DID, the best time would be your wedding night.
I tell you the truth - you ARE worth waiting for.
If your B/F agreed, and thought enough of your feelings, he wouldn't be pushing you for it. And if he doesn't put enough value on your feelings to stop pressuring you, then is he really a friend?
Sweetheart, you DO know what to do - you've been doing it and I encourage you to KEEP ON doing it.
2006-11-26 09:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by WindWalker10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you have been dating each other for 7 months and thats the 1st thng he asked you about
well I don't know I think that he does care and love you or he wouldnt still be with you but then at the same time if you do it then the realationship could just be foused on that (its happened to me before) he could also brag to his friends and try to share you because I have had a guy try to see if his firiends could get some too or on the other hand it could bring yall closer then ever I don't really know either one of yall so I don't know the situation sex can be the thing that can either make or break up a realationship
2006-11-26 09:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that you'll listen to this wise advice, but you really are too young to have sex yet. No matter how much you love your boyfriend. You are far too young - which is proven by the fact that you've listed your e-mail address here for any nutcase to use to contact you.
2006-11-26 09:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend was right only when your ready should you decide when the time is right at 15 you should not be ready, unless you want all the baggage to come with it, but teenagers usually do what they want anyway, so if your ready at least make sure you are both well protected good luck
2006-11-26 09:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by walmartshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been bothering you about it since you started dating then that's all he cares about. It would be a mistake and you'd end up regretting it. Wait till you find the right person.
2006-11-26 09:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by bsbfrk411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it because if he has been asking you way from the beginning that means that's the only thing he wants out of the relationship.Say NO and tell him if he asks you again it's over.There should never be pressure.
2006-11-26 09:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Such a Lady!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On your wedding night. That's the only way you can be sure of his love and devotion.
2006-11-26 09:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like this is the next step, go for it but if you feel like he's forcing you, then wait even more to see if he sticks around
2006-11-26 09:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime your mind and heart is ready to lose your virginity is the best time.
2006-11-26 09:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by hard_2forget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you're having doubts....if this is the case don't have sex with him...this sounds cliche i know but if he loved you like you say he does then he woulndnt pressure you to have sex....my personal opinion...dont rush sex....have patience, you're young...enjoy your childhood( it sounds like i'm preaching i know)
2006-11-26 09:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋