I think I might be in love with a close friend of mine. We've been friends for at least 5 years now and I try to be with her as much as possible. She's got a talent for making me laugh and cheering me up when I'm depressed. And I find myself thinking about her randomly through the day like: "She would really like to see this" or "I wonder what she would think about this."
But as much as I like being around her, I'm not really sexually attracted to her at all. Does this sound like love or a crush to you, or is just friendship?
2006-11-26 09:37:18 · 3 answers · asked by Phantazy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it sounds like a really good friendship that could turn into something more, if you really wanted it too! I have that same kind of relationship with my friends, (though all my friends are bi, they know I'm straight and they respect, and vice versa) I think about them randomly too and sometimes I think I do it because I just don't like being alone and thinking of them makes me happy you know? Maybe that's why you think of her a lot as well. But before you do anything make sure you know for sure that if you feel that way about her, she feels the same way about you or your friendship could become really awkward to say the least! I hope I helped, and if I didn't I'm sorry.
~Alayna
2006-11-26 09:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Alayna M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think tht is it was love u would know i ti think you should give it some more time toi sink in and see if you love her or not. Because it might just be you love her ways but no her. And maybe your not gay you just love being around her.
2006-11-26 19:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE A FRIENDSHIP
2006-11-26 17:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋