What do i do if i hate my moms boyfriend and she cusses at me and so does he????

Answer 1

Why don't you like your mom's boyfriend?
Did he do something or are you just not giving him a chance?

Sounds like your mom is frustrated and doesn't know how to handle the situation properly. Try calmly talking to her when he is not around and tell her your feelings and why you feel this way. Remember stay calm and give her time to respond.

Answer 2

Ok, assuming you can't go live somewhere else, and assuming you are still a minor, the answer is more than you would think. If you're not careful, your mom's deficiencies will be yours too one day, so the first thing you need to do is figure out what she is doing and why she's doing. Why is she with this guy? Why do I hate him? What can I do so that either she doesn't want him around here anymore or vice versa? A little sabotage never hurt... well... anyway if you are really committed to getting rid of this guy, it should be pretty easy, provided you have no moral objections to what I'm about to say. This is a big deal, and you may get in deep sh1t if you get caught... Get a hold of another womans panties or a bra, one of your friends mom's maybe, and just throw it in with the laundry. Make sure it is dirty... gross I know! When your mom does the laundry, assuming she does, she'll find it and go crazy. She'll assume hes cheating on her. That may not be enough for her to dump him though. So if that doesn't do the job, a little lipstick on the collar of one of his dirty work shirts will certainly help. Make sure its a shade neither you or your mom uses. Finally, barrow a friends perfume. When your moms bf comes home from work, right before he walks in the door, spray some perfume on your hand. As he is comming in the door, you walk out... wiping your hand across his back. Make sure you leave the house so your mom doesn't smell the perfume on you. Wash it off asap. If it works, don't ever tell anyone what you did!!!!

Answer 3

well, for one if your mom's boyfriend is cussing you out, then he doesn't have respect for you or your mom. If your mom is cussing you out, then you need to talk to her about it, telling her that it's not okay to be cussing you out all the time for no reason. As for the boyfriend who's cussing all the time, he needs to be dumped or something. He just doesn't sound like a good person to me.

Answer 4

First of all I am very sorry to hear you are having such trouble at home. The best advice I can give you would be to talk to a responsible and caring adult in your family, maybe an aunt, uncle or grandparent, someone who has close relationship with your mother and inform them of what's going on. If there is no one in your family you can turn to then it may be a good idea to talk with a guidance counselor or clergy member. And please don't rule out praying. Hopefully, my advice will be of some help. I will certainly be praying for you. Peace and God bless.

Answer 5

You are in a terrible spot and too young (probably) to change where you live.

In psychology, if you want someone to change, you first have to change something about yourself. For a week, try being nice to both of them - really, honestly nice and cooperative. Keep to yourself as much as possible, but when you're around them, be nice. That might be the magic bullet that will improve how they treat you.

Answer 6

I feel for you dear, is there no one that you can talk to?
what about your father?
if there is no one for you to hear your concerns then i would say talk to your school councilors, and see if they can help you and if they cant then you talk to your local police but be prepared for the consequences because they might take you away from your home and put you in foster care,
so try one more time to get her to hear your side of the story and good Luck because no child should be second to a spouse i don't care who they are.

Answer 7

Here's what I would do. I would tape record them every time they swear at you. You can buy little hand recorders at Superstore (if you in Canadian) or from Future Shop, Best Buy, or any kind of eletronics bouquet. And essentially frame them. Or, if you don't want to do that, swear back. If they touch you, take photos of it and a relative (grandparents, aunt, uncle, cousins, etc) anyone you are really close too. That should royally piss them off. :D That's what I would do, if their abusive their just trash. Your life shouldn't be messed up because they can't cope.

Answer 8

talk to someone like me e-mail me at [e-mail] because i know how this situation goes you should really talk to her about how you feel and if she still cusses at you then call a relative and stay with them for a couple of days or ask them can they help you with the situation ask them to talk to your mother and tell your mother to talk to her boyfriend cause he is not your daddy and he can get hurt by your daddy or if he cusses at you again e-mail me

Answer 9

It is not easy, but try to show some respect to both of them. Lisen to what they are saying to you.After they are done talking to you, try to do what they have requested of you.
Then you have the place to ask for them not to cure or belittle you. Life is a two way street. You have to give a little to get a little.

Answer 10

Talk to an adult. I would suggest your dad or a teacher. Talk to yur grandparents if they are available and strong enough to handle the sittuation. I hope things get better for you.