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I just want to know what you think. I have really only been in a few serious relationships so just looking for some perspective. Me and this girl hit it off big w/ each other but over time she grew distant. It happens, but when we talked about it, she said it wasn't me, it was her. You don't have to tell me what that meant, but things kept running hot and cold for a few months. So we talked and talked and she kept saying the same thing, it was her, not me. And now I really believe her. The problem is I was pushing for her to make a decision about her feelings for me, as I thought she was just leading me on w/ the hot/cold, it's me stuff. We're on a "break" right now and it occurs to me she needs to see me as a great friend, too. SO I guess my question is, this is all backwards, isn't it? Do the relationship thing THEN work on being good friends with each other? Does this ever work? Or does this have to happen if it's going to work? I absolutely love this girl.

2006-11-26 09:37:13 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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She is not sure how she feels about having a serious relationship.
it is not you. it is her.
she needs space to think about it.
give her space
If she wants you and the relationship then that is all good.'
But if she says no she doesn't, at least you can honestly say
that you didn't push her into anything,
she had her space and time to decide..

2006-11-26 09:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0 0

MOVE ON

SHE IS NOT FOR YOU

2006-11-26 17:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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