Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

me and my boyfriend have been togetha for 4months now..the first two months we used to hang out all the time he used to be affectionate and the whole nine...now recently he is jus stopped doin those things... and he says im needy when i ask him about was goin on wit him..i dont know was goin on and i find myself tellin him dat i miss him and all that and he jus says silly things like ok...im thinking he has problems wit opening up ...help me out guys was wrong wit him

2006-11-18 05:53:30 · 24 answers · asked by gina 2 in Singles & Dating

plz helpe me in the problem

2006-11-18 05:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by Subhan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

show off their treasures in public in front of their man?

2006-11-18 05:52:35 · 13 answers · asked by The Tramp Collector 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to call him but I'm scared. What should I do? I love him with all my heart but yet he told me not to ever call him again. But I can't do that. What should I do? I can't move on. I just can't.

2006-11-18 05:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 05:52:01 · 11 answers · asked by Aliza 2 in Friends

okay well it got around that i liked an older kid, and now he is making fun of me and everything, and everyone is talking about it. im soo embarrased,,, what do i do and sayy????? help me!!!!!!!

2006-11-18 05:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by kisses_in_the_rain212 2 in Singles & Dating

I work full time, cook, and have so much else to offer, but i just can't clean after work, and find it hard to pick up after myself.
I figure 1/4 of my paycheck would pay for a maid, right?

2006-11-18 05:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by roxy 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok I've been dating this guy for 5 years and I'm ready for marriage. Yes I know its just a piece of paper but I want a child. My profession & morals says I should have a child only in wed-lock.

So this is the situation: He knows I want to get married but if I mention it to him he changes the subject or makes a joke about it. Laughing at me or rolling his eyes. I know he loves me and our relationship is a normal happy one. We do have the occassional fight but that's just about it. He has told my sister that he can't see himself with anybody else. But this is so frustrating to me!! HELP! What should I do? Move on or be patient?

Thanks!

2006-11-18 05:50:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to put this into the Religion category as well.
Here's my story: I was raised in a very conservative fundamentalist Christian faith. Married at 20 to another church member who turned out to be even more fundamentalist than I. Refuses to do anything in bed other than petting and missionary. In my mid 20s I started to want more, a lot more, but hubby refused, saying only whores do that. He refused joint counseling.
I went to pastor and to church women's counselor, was told to obey husband and that God was just testing me. I am very attractive, told I look 20 years younger than my age (I am 44), and many married men over the years hit on me, which disgusted me but also made me more frustrated. Then 2 years ago I met wonderful understanding traveling businessman with whom I not only was able to do the sexual universe but he became true friend and confidant (he has had several affairs with married women, all at the ladies' initiative, so he says).

2006-11-18 05:49:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I am 13 and I got a boyfriend...
We have been going out for a long time...we think we are ready for IT...were should we do it? I realy do love him and he loves me to and I know it is the right thing to do...

also how old were you when you had IT? Where were you when you had it? How old were you? What did you do when you had IT? how romantic was it? Did you have any "equitment"?

2006-11-18 05:49:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I gave them to good will, to help people. now i have no clothes. and my mom said she still won't buy me new clothes. she says i have to try and get my clothes back. isn's she being rude?

2006-11-18 05:48:31 · 9 answers · asked by orangepeoplerocks 1 in Family

would you like some company?

2006-11-18 05:48:04 · 12 answers · asked by lil' vamp 1 in Singles & Dating

me and 2 of my friends are starting a group can you help us with a name!




are names are drea chloe and elon we were trying to put them in one whole name!

2006-11-18 05:47:13 · 2 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have never meet my real father all i know is this is his real name and the year he was born and if you know more inforemation please email me i have been searching 4 him 4 22 years he up and abandoned me and my brother and now my dead mother

2006-11-18 05:46:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do youdo when you and your partner argue? It is usually about the same thing and I feel so pissed off! What's the best way to deal with these things? Forget it and carry on? Sulk? Get angry? I tend to get angry and then not talk for a couple of days but I know this is not the best thing to do really. Any suggestions on how to keep a marriage going would be appreciated. Thanks

2006-11-18 05:44:47 · 21 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife always complains all the time about her weight. i really dont see anything wrong about her. im always telling her she is beatiful and she doesnt believe me. she is comparing herself to when we first started dating and that was like 5 1/2 yrs ago. so i thought to help her feel better, i bought an eliptical and a weight machine because that is what she wanted. she always gets depressed because she doesnt see the weight loss in one or two days. it is also affecting or sex life. she's never interested anymore even though i am still very attracted to her. i really have run out of options of what to do. i need some suggestions. i try talking to her about it, but it usually ends up in a argument and she doesnt want to talk about it anymore.

2006-11-18 05:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by tazz4584 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

very stupied we have been going with each other for 2 year i have tex him rang him no reply i think he dose care and he started this argument

2006-11-18 05:44:19 · 4 answers · asked by hotmail 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my ex, i want to marry him. He is everything that I could possibly want in a man. There is absolutely nothing that he could do or not do to stop me from loving him. But, he knows it. And he want step up. we spend a lot of time together. more now than ever. wat should i do? Is he not interested......

2006-11-18 05:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by lukin4answers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 22, and have been dating my bf for almost a year. He has ADD, and it really affects his life, as well as mine. He's usually okay about keeping in touch. This past week he went on vacation across the country to visit his friend. He e-mailed twice saying he'd call, and never called. It's great that he got to have fun with his friend, but I feel as if I've been ignored. He's coming home late tonight, and we're supposed to have plans tomorrow, but I don't know if they're still on, or if he's even remembered them, since he hasn't called. When he's done this before, he's acted very sorry, blamed it on the ADD and I've forgiven him. But I feel that by forgiving him for something that bugs me so much I'm being a doormat. Anyway, should I forgive him, or move on?

2006-11-18 05:42:29 · 17 answers · asked by Andrea T 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 05:41:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend has been dating a guy for about two years now. they live together with her little four year old daughter from a previous relationship. but lately she says shes having problems with him; not major problems, just like stupid little arguments. she says she still loves him very much... anyway, recently shes been seeing another guy behind his back. the new guy doesnt know she has a boyfriend. anyway i know she really likes this new guy. she says they are "just friends" and nothing is going to happen, but i KNOW she is lying. she has cheated on boyfriends before. i dont know what to tell her, because it is her life, but she is always making bad choices, and i hate seeing her screw up all the time. anyway, her boyfriend is a nice guy, and he cares about her a lot. im thinking maybe i should tell him what is going on, just because this whole thing isnt fair to him. i dont want her to know that i told him, but wouldnt telling him be the right thing to do?

2006-11-18 05:41:53 · 6 answers · asked by michelle s 1 in Friends

I am specifically looking for a place that rents designer gowns. I don't want to buy on eBay, go to trunk shows, sample sales, seamstresses, etc...

2006-11-18 05:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by Jaclyn 1 in Weddings

I need to get my mind off my ex or it's gonna make me start crying. And I really don't want to cry. If so my e-mail address is rggs_shly@yahoo.com

2006-11-18 05:41:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this boy knows i lyke him but he claims he doesnt like me back and his friends say that he doesnt like me either. i dont know wut to think. and i don't think it'll be a good idea for me to just ask him. please help me

2006-11-18 05:40:57 · 9 answers · asked by azngrlzkickass 2 in Singles & Dating

I finally told the guy I've been dating for awhile that I love him and he said he was really happy, but he wondered why I've never said it before (since he has). Then he said that this changes everything and he has to think for a few days. He said it was nothing bad when I asked...he assures me that he is very happy but in shock because he never thought I would say it. I am so confused...why would he have to think if nothing is wrong??? Any ideas?

2006-11-18 05:39:58 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 05:39:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-18 05:39:18 · 3 answers · asked by Ue 1 in Singles & Dating

If you knew that your ex was in love with, wanted to marry you, and that you were her pride and joy, would you want her to tell you? Or should she save face, escpecially if you don't feel the same........

2006-11-18 05:38:53 · 8 answers · asked by lukin4answers 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i have a boyfriend of almost 2 years now. We have been thru ups n dwns n all around. He loves me n I definetly love him!! But my Mom and also his Mom believe that we shouldnt be together, becuz of our age difference he is 18 and I am 15. Bt our birthdays follow one another. His is in april n mine is in may. I love him with all my heart and its not perfect but we are getting there. We are working on a lot of things at this current moment also. Like we are working on trust and communication. And now on top of all that we have our parents to worry about. They believe our love is just temporary, but I believe that it is forreal even though I am younger than him. They say im not mature enough for him. But I have done a lot of mature for him but they dont no that I have. I want to make this work so bad but we have so much of a difference wit each otha. We got to worry about the law but that isnt really a factor.I know what we have to do to solve these problems bt he is bein negative...

2006-11-18 05:38:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and 2 of my friends are starting a group can you help us with a name!

2006-11-18 05:38:30 · 6 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Friends