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Ok I am 13 and I got a boyfriend...
We have been going out for a long time...we think we are ready for IT...were should we do it? I realy do love him and he loves me to and I know it is the right thing to do...

also how old were you when you had IT? Where were you when you had it? How old were you? What did you do when you had IT? how romantic was it? Did you have any "equitment"?

2006-11-18 05:49:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

HEY STOP THE ANSWERS I AM NOT GOING TO HAVE SEX AND I DONT WANT TO KNOW ANY ANSWERS TO ANY OF MY QUESTIONS OK, I JUST WANTED TO SEE IF YOU GUYS WOULD TELL ME TO GO 4 IT OR NOT AN I AM GLAD I CAN TRUST MOST OF YOU GUYS....
AND I KNOW MY SPELLING IS NOT GREAT SO STOP BUGGING ME ABOUT THAT

2006-11-18 06:00:51 · update #1

DON'T YOU GUYS EVER READ MORE THAN THE FIRST DETAIL???
WELL READ THIS...

I WAS JOKING
I AM NOT HAVING SEX
I DON'T EVEN THINK HE IS READY
SO STOP ANSWERING MY QUESTION
I AM NOT WONDERING ABOUT SEX OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT
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FOR ALL I CARE STOP READING NOW
SO THIS DOSE NOT MEAN I DONT WANT YOU TO STOP ANSWERING ANY OF MY OTHER QUESTIONS...
JUST STOP ANSWERING THIS ONE
ANSWER SOMEONE ELSES QUESTIONS
BUY BUY BUY BUY BUY BUY BUY BUY!!!
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OK I HOPE YOU ARE DONE ANSWERING THIS QUESTION BECAUSE I AM RUNNING OUT OF ROOM TO TELL YOU NOT TO ANSWER THIS ONE QUESTION...
SO PLEASE STOP ANSWERING THIS QUESTION BEFORE I GET MAD
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2006-11-18 06:18:27 · update #2

18 answers

Your "first time" should have nothing to do with the opinions of strangers on the internet.

2006-11-18 05:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tiacola Version 9.0 7 · 0 0

I think you should talk to your boyfriend and make the decision as a couple. However 13 is very young to loose your virginity, I did at a young age and regretted it, I think I would have been better waiting a couple of years, it is something you will remember for your life. It is usually uncomfortabke the first time but it should be a romantic experience. You should also make sure you have looked into contraception and sexually transmitted disease, you don't want to end up pregnant or with and STD. Once you have lost it thats it. Your boyfriend may then assume you will want to have sex all the time but you must have discussed if you are ready for that in your relationship, you may want your fist time over and then want to wait a while or take it slower again. Make sure you find out lots of info first and in all honestly I would wait a while. You may go ahead anyway but you could talk with your boyfiend just going a bit further wihtout full sex and explore each other a little without the pressure of full sex.

2006-11-18 14:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nic 2 · 0 0

Really make sure that you are ready. I am not stopping you or anything about losing your virginity, but it's just that you are too young. You have your whole life ahead of you. At least wait until youre 16. You don't want to be prenant and have your baby at 14 or 13, do you? By the way, condoms don't work that good. They are not 100% safe for you. Just do what you think it is right. I'm just showing you you have not started your life yet. Having sex is no joke.

2006-11-18 13:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by romanos_curl 3 · 0 0

why don't you delete your question.What was the meaning of all that waste of time and space.You know your doing the right thing so why did you bother the rest of us acting like you want or nabbed advice when you have made your little mind up to seek advice from the people who care about you when you are just grabbing for points when you just spent 5 points to ask a stupid question that you AL Raddy knew the answer to and I clicked on to try to talk you out of making the biggest mistake of your life and I'll bet your mother or I'll bet you father dint even know that their 13 year old brat daughter has a boy friend and trying to get help from people who want to help but you are just playing around acting like a 6 year old and I hope I have been a little help for your little mind as many other good well meaning folks have clicked on to try to help as I have try ed,now some more advice go a head and delete your question like you should have a long long long long long long long long long long time ago.BY BY by by BY BY BY ta ta ta ta ta ta ta ta ta ta ta by by by by by ta by ta by ta by ta brat.

2006-11-18 14:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

OK, you are 13, and whether or not your boyfriend has the "equitment" (sic) you are not ready till you can spell "Couple" and many other simple words!

13. Are you Serious?...
And by the way, you are 13. You are a child. You are not a "Hottie" no matter what you may think!

2006-11-18 13:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0 0

your 13 I am sorry to tell you that your making a bad choose it you think your ready or if you think he loves you. at 13 what does he know or what do you know. Do you even know what your going to be doing next year or if he will be there next year you don't. I am 26 years old and just to see some one that is this young thinking about that makes me sick sorry not trying to be mean but it does.

2006-11-18 13:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by richard s 1 · 0 0

You are in now way ready to have sex. It's not your age that concerns me, but your lack of knowledge of sex and it's implications.

Talk to you mother about this. Don't sneak around and end up pregnant or with a sexually transmitted disease that can ruin your life.

Sex involves a lot of emotions, it's not just physical, expecially for girls, but also for boys and you guys are not ready for that.

2006-11-18 13:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Everyman 3 · 0 0

Wait until you're older. if he really loves u, and u really love him, u will wait. u can have a relationship without doing it right now. just have a RELATIONSHIP to make sure it's real. what if for some reason in another year, or even a month, u had a fight and broke up, u'd have done it for nothing. wait

2006-11-18 14:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ordinary Girl 1 · 0 0

Frankly that is none of your business. You go ahead and go for it. When you wind up pregnant don't say people didn't try to warn you little girl.

2006-11-18 13:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You know absolutely nothing, not even how to use the spell checker.

2006-11-18 13:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by solara 437 6 · 1 0

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